Jaw Dropping June 2ww - part 2!

[TtcBlue18]

Ttc-ohhh that would bother me SO much! Why do people do that??? Especially if they intentionally do it & you are around each other a lot. Luckily, DH's bro lives 10 hours away and we aren't in the same circles, BUT they have the same last name & we will look like the ones that stole their name ugh. Glad most of his fam already knew our girl name though....so we technically had the name 1st, but they're having the baby first. I can't imagine changing it just to appease everyone else. No one has the same name in my family or circle of friends where we live.

Right, I think she just really liked the name and they were struggling to find a boys name to begin with because they were hoping for a girl. She even made the comment to her dh in front of mine that "They don't even have a boy and he doesn't want anymore kids so I don't see what the problem is" and it was kind of a stab in the heart when he told me she said that because she has her boy, and I may never get mine and I don't feel it was necessary to throw it in my face like that.

I think you should name your baby whatever you had picked out. If you don't, you may always regret it. I wanted to name my second daughter Olivia, but my husband had a cousin named Olivia and I just wasnt aware because I'd never met her being their family lives so far away. After I had fallen in love with the name my SIL tells me, "No we can't have two Olivia's in the family, our family just don't do that." So my dh said we should choose something different and we picked out Evelynn. I love her name but I do feel like it was a rebound because I settled for it after the name I had fallen in love with was taken from me. So I think whatever that name is, you should keep it and if it upsets your BIL or his wife, just explain to them

[TtcBlue18]

Ttc- I waited two days after af was due to test with dd. With all the excitement here, 7 dpo was the longest I could hold. [emoji51][emoji51][emoji51]
I m glad your friend's husband was so considerate. I would have hated it if someone stole my name on purpose.
I pray u get your Oliver James soon 🤞🤞
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Thank you! With all the ladies here getting Bfps at 6-9dpo I might start testing early too, that's exciting!!

[Lolabelle]

Ttc-do it lol! Nothing like a little peer pressure haha. The wondfos & OSOMs can easily be ordered off of Amazon. The wondfos are super cheap & are great for detecting early. I feel like I could see the progression better on the frer & OSOMs better though. Can't wait for all of you to start testing!!!!
As far as the name-she sounds completely inconsiderate! Unbelievable how some people think! Beautiful names you've picked out, sorry you felt like you settled. That's exactly the feeling I'll have if I change it! DH doesn't want to change it either. It's a super common name, but we have named our kiddos all "S" names & I loved this name before it got popular. When DH proposed to me he said "and we'll have lots of Sophia's." I've been waiting on my Sophia ever since. I *may* finally get my girl & it's almost like a cruel joke that they're using the name ugh. We see them maybe once a year, but DH talks to his bro on the phone a lot. They still haven't discussed the name & how we'd still plan to use it haha.

[kat1234]

Lola - Use your name!! Just make sure they have different middle names and all will be good [emoji12]

[Mommy2apples]

TTC: that's terrible she would even say that in front of your husband!
Lola:Yes! Don't change the name for them! Stick to the name you've chosen!

We have a name we absolutely love for a girl! Have loved it since our first angel baby.
Emmalyn Grace dh has a cousin who named her two little girls emery and Evelyn. Both close to our choice. Dh said there is no way we will change the name though. I wouldn't want to though.


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[TtcBlue18]

Oh my gosh, Lola, that solves it! You must still use it. If it was in the proposal, it's a done deal! Looks like you guys will just have to include middle names on the rare occasion that they are together lol. I think I'm finally over the Olivia.. I have an Ava and an Evelynn and if I get another baby I'll be adding an Oliver or an Ivory, so it's all good. Plus if I get a boy, I will actually be using the male form of the same name lol... Oliver/Olivia; and then I'll be so grateful I didn't name my 2nd daughter that.

[Mommy2apples]

We have an Ashtyn Olivia TtC


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[AshFind]

No way I can stay caught up on here lol but Lola don't change that name for them! I have a cousin Ashley we live in the same town hardly ever see each other but once and a while and it is just fine.


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[TtcBlue18]

Lola, maybe I will order a couple wondfos Thanks for the info!

Mommy, that's a beautiful name! Absolutely love it!

[Mommy2apples]

Thanks Ttc!


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