Part 4: Due December 2017, January, February and March 2018

[Bluebooties]

Ash are u taking anything for the MS ?

🎀 2010 🎀 2012 🎀 2016 🤰due 2018

[4blue2pink]

Hello all,
I am trying to catch up. Welcome to all newbies.

So speaking of team green. This is my first time at it. Given my bout of depression at the BFP i am wondering if it is good for me to stay team green or not ? To elaborate; if i stay team green and hear girl (my 4th) at delivery i am afraid i will not want to hold her or look at her. I have heard of postpartum depression and how bad it can get. I wonder if i will be vunruable to it this time bcoz of just not being overall happy with this pregnancy and all. If i find out early would that give me time to adjust and get over it before baby comes i wonder.

What do u guys think ?

🎀 2010 🎀 2012 🎀 2016 🤰due 2018

there are pro's and cons to both ways as im sure you know and i think only you can make the decision that is right for you, i wish it was simpler and im so sorry you are feeling all this.
just a suggestion here for if you do stay team green you could request that no-one announce the gender at birth, you have them put baby on you as they do and you have as much time as you need holding baby, falling in love and just taking it all in and then you look when you are ready without pressure from anyone else.
i hope that you are able to come to a decision that feels right for you and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy xx

[Lolabelle]

Hi & welcome mum of four monkeys! Sorry you had mixed gender messages with the nipt results, but glad your little guy is healthy. I'm doing the materniT21 test for the first time July 18th and don't know what to expect. What type of mixed messages did you get?
Pbn-thank you, I do think that all is fine with BIL's baby, but DH did talk to him on the phone today & asked how everything is going. He said fine, but didn't elaborate much. He asked if they had done any U/S pics b/c he'd love to see. He said his bro just kind of laughed & said they did. He said he was going to e-mail, but don't think DH has received anything yet. We may just be reading into it too much after what his mom said, but the laughing response is a little curious hmm...
Blue-I think it's a great idea to have your gender written down on a paper in an envelope to open when you're ready! I am wondering how I'll hear the gender results from my blood work. I'd like to be able to read it at home by myself. I'm not going to lie, I will be so disappointed if I hear boy & nothing has seemed to prepare me for this moment. I would get over it, but I know I'd cry at first and hate feeling that way about a little person that I made!!!

[AshFind]

Momoffourboys that's horrible that dh and family would put that kind of pressure on you. It is absolutely not your fault!
Blue I don't have anything for the ms just more natural things that I've also been neglecting. My dr isn't keen on extra meds so more than likely they'd say since I'm not vomiting up all my food and I've gained a couple lbs I'm good. And I'm ok with it I guess


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[Bluebooties]

there are pro's and cons to both ways as im sure you know and i think only you can make the decision that is right for you, i wish it was simpler and im so sorry you are feeling all this.
just a suggestion here for if you do stay team green you could request that no-one announce the gender at birth, you have them put baby on you as they do and you have as much time as you need holding baby, falling in love and just taking it all in and then you look when you are ready without pressure from anyone else.
i hope that you are able to come to a decision that feels right for you and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy xx

I didnt know that was an option.
Thanks i will keep this under consideration too

🎀 2010 🎀 2012 🎀 2016 🤰due 2018

[Bluebooties]

Ash over the counter unisom ( generic of diclegis) has helped me a lot without making me drowsy as i can still function at work (surprisingly) I don't have vomiting i just feel blah with a weird taste and that a pill at night keep me feeling normal.

🎀 2010 🎀 2012 🎀 2016 🤰due 2018

[Pbn3]

there are pro's and cons to both ways as im sure you know and i think only you can make the decision that is right for you, i wish it was simpler and im so sorry you are feeling all this.
just a suggestion here for if you do stay team green you could request that no-one announce the gender at birth, you have them put baby on you as they do and you have as much time as you need holding baby, falling in love and just taking it all in and then you look when you are ready without pressure from anyone else.
i hope that you are able to come to a decision that feels right for you and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy xx

4blue2pink I cant love this idea enough ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

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[Bluebooties]

Mumoffour i have had comments like urs too about not being able to carry a boy but very thankfully my DH has always been on my side and very supportive of me. And i think this is what has helped me bear with all the nasty comments. I have only told 2 coworkers and so far so good. Havent had courage to tell MIL ( she is the worse with comments) my mum has always been neutral. She wishes i get a boy but also will be ok if its a girl.

🎀 2010 🎀 2012 🎀 2016 🤰due 2018

[momoffourboyz]

Yeah MIL is the one that was treating me that way then everyone else just joined in including my husband. She has also accused me of being bulimic and anerexic because I am not fat nor have I ever been. She has made so many rude comments and the sad part is I just have to take it because my husband does nothing. He's says she didn't mean it to be mean and I just shouldn't get offended. But how do you not get offended when someone belittles you like that?

[Bluebooties]

I totally understand mumoffour. I just don't understand how ppl can do that. I mean she is a mother too. She should understand. We have no control over this.

🎀 2010 🎀 2012 🎀 2016 🤰due 2018