Jubilant July 2WW Thread (2)

[Pbn3]

Mtolbert just stick with the curved ones. If you start testing at 10dpo then there's a good chance you'll see a line even on the curved. Start testing whenever you like of course 😀 but just be aware they aren't as sensitive in case you get bfns to begin with

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[TtcBlue18]

So this is more of a parenting question than a ttc question, but i didn't think anyone would mind.

Tonight I had something happen with my 3 year old.. I've been thinking about it for a couple hours now and I don't quite know what to tell her, so I thought I would reach out for suggestions.

At bedtime, she said her prayer, talked to her great grandma (up in Heaven), and then she asked God for another sister. I won't say exactly what she said, because you guys wouldn't understand what she was meaning the way I did, but I will paraphrase..

She said, "God please put another baby sister in my mamas belly. I know daddy doesn't want one, but I know he will love her because he loves me and sissy. I want another sissy, but maybe a boy too."

Now obviously she must have heard us discussing this when we thought she was sleeping because we don't talk about it in front of her. Though once she was looking at my maternity pictures and asked how she got in my belly, and I told her "God puts babies in womens bellies when they want to be a mommy" so that's where she got that part.

What I'm afraid of is that if I don't concieve, she'll blame daddy. She must have heard him say he didn't want another baby. She's already been "snubbing" him the last couple days and now I'm sure this is why. What do I tell her to explain she might not get another sibling? Or should i not say anything at all? Any advice is appreciated. This just breaks my heart.

[Pbn3]

Ttcblue I'm not sure there's much you can say..... have you told you husband? Maybe he can do next bedtime prayers and if she repeats the same wish then he can discuss it with her? Or if he's not interested in addressing it then I'd think about just letting it go and hope she forgets. Maybe direct next bedtime prayers to something else by saying 'let's say a prayer for (person) or let's pray for this or that'... sorry not much help with this 😕

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[netti02]

Ttcblue im not much help with this. I think maybe letting it go and if she brings it up again then addressing it. Not quite the same topic but my eldest boys always ask why they don't have a sister. Ive just explained to them that we are blessed with what will be will be and that's that.

My ovaries must not like the cold they still aren't shaking a tail feather 🤣 i think the line of today's test is a shade more than yesterdays almost non existent line. It seems it will be a slow week for me.

How is everyone else holding up.

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[Pbn3]

Netti hope those ovaries start getting into progress mode for you!

Mummy2boys I'm abit lost as to the time where you are but let us know how this mornings test goes!

Mommy2apples getting close now! Only a week until o! Are you starting opks tomorrow am or waiting until cd11? (Some say you can start 3 days after last clomid pills, some say 4)

Halley all the best for your morning test!! Have my fx so tight for you!

Maxim and ttcblue was hoping Sundays temp would be in before I went to sleep but alas it isn't 😌 not to worry will check it out either in the early morning of I wake up early enough or after school drop off!

Mtolbert I'll be watching your chart with alot of interest over the next week 😀


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[TtcBlue18]

Pbn and Netti: Thank you so much for your answers. I can't really talk to my mom or anyone else IRL because we haven't told anyone we're ttc. I told dh about it when he got home last night and he said he would talk to her. I think I'll just tell him not to say/do anything yet. Maybe I can put it off until after af is due. If I'm lucky there won't be a reason for him to talk to her.

[Lolabelle]

Ttc-See what happens this cycle & fx it won't even be an issue!! You are so covered with your rockstar attempts, feeling so hopeful for you!! Try not to think of the pressure from DH with only allowing a few cycles and focus on, this WILL happen!! I agree with the others, maybe let her bring it up again & maybe DH can do prayers one night? Or if she snubs him again, maybe DH could ask an open-ended question to see if she brings it up again. Just a simple "what's wrong?" "Are you feeling ok?" or "Is something bothering you?" etc. or something like that. I'm not sure, just a thought...

[Mommy2apples]

Pbn it will be monday. Af came early in the morning this cycle so cd11. I'm ready for o to get here, so I can catch my egg! Really hoping the dual cb opks does the trick! Plan to get my attempt in at midnight, even though my do just hates those wake up, because of work. Only way I know we will get our attempt on time. Say I get a midnight attempt and get a positive opk that morning, could I get in another attempt that day, or would that be boy territory?

Ttc: is honestly just let it be! Who's to say you aren't expecting anyways!




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[TtcBlue18]

Lola: Thank you, I think that's a great idea. She's never acted like this towards him before so I noticed it right away. I just thought she was angry at him for not being home much the past couple days. After hearing her say that it just clicked. I'll wait a few days and if af shows then I'll wait for her to mention it again before I have dh talk to her.

Mommy: Thanks girl, I sure hope that's true. I would love to be able to tell her we're getting a baby rather than trying to find a way to explain (in kid terms) why we can't.

[Mommy2apples]

True ttc! My little girl called my pregnancy of her sibling a year before it happened. Said she would be getting a sister for christmas, that god told her. So I believe he told her sibling. She got him two days after Christmas.


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