October Chit Chat Thread for Blue Swayers. All welcome!!

[LolaInLove]

OMG Ive only just told a few close friends and my family about my bfp & already Ive had, "I think its a boy", "Omg I feel sorry for hubby if he gets another girl", "Obviously you want a boy this time, right?"

Cant people just shut up and say "wow thats awsome, congratulations, without all the other bullshit comments

Its fine with all you guys wishing me a boy, cause only you guys know Ive been swaying.

dd1 dd2 & OMG Im

Yep, sounds about right, Cap. When I was briefly pregnant in March/April (the mc #2), we told people and got a trillion similar responses about hoping for a boy etc. You just have to come up with a good comeback and let the idiotic commentary roll off your back. I would say, "Actually, we are just hoping for a healthy baby" with a nice hint of sarcasm in there, and people got my drift. Sometimes they mean well and just want to make conversation, but IMO they still deserve a nice saucy comeback.

[LolaInLove]

Hey y'all, good morning! So we DTD again last night--finally got a +opk. Trying to decide when/if to do it again? We did it the 24th, then the 26th (last night) and I *think* I will O tonight/tomorrow (hard to say, but I usually get 24hr of + opks and I think I O the next day?). I am hoping the egg waits until tomorrow to come out so we are in a boy moon sign.

I would do it again on the morning of the 28th (tomorrow).

[Hobbermittens]

I would do it again on the morning of the 28th (tomorrow).

You think so? Not tonight? I am just not sure exactly when I O, so I don't want to miss it. This is hard! I would prefer to do it on the 28th so we get more swimmers, but I am not sure we will need them then if the egg has already left.

[LolaInLove]

You think so? Not tonight? I am just not sure exactly when I O, so I don't want to miss it. This is hard! I would prefer to do it on the 28th so we get more swimmers, but I am not sure we will need them then if the egg has already left.

Well, if your egg drops tonight, you would still only be maybe 8 hours after? I guess it depends on when you really think you will ovulate. You could totally do it again tonight though. You know I don't believe in the timing much. Just said tomorrow morning to give your DH more time to build up, but 24 hours is actually fine, really.

[LolaInLove]

Also wanted to add Hobber, that you probably have stalked the "pregnant with boy" FF charts and most of them are dtd every day.

[3Pink1Blue]

Love being a mummy- now don't get me wrong Hun I swayed but I stuck to the factors I could control and focused on changing the things that were in contrast to my girl making lifestyle. I cut out processed foods and shoveled in the healthy stuff. I have always worked out heavily, weights and all so I cut down to Pilates with weights. We always had to use lube, so I focused on increasing cm. My pH was unbudgable, I don't know any boy moms who didn't love dairy and refused to wait to be in the proper moon phase. Check out my sway for more details.

Dreamblue- I agree a failed sway is helpful but IG had people convinced there was a perfect combination guarenteed to get you that boy and dissecting the sways was the only way to find it. So sad really.

MFC- glad I make you feel better, I always hope to give you ladies hope

CA- omg I hate hearing that crap. From the time I got preg with dd2 (who turns 7 in a few weeks) I heard it all. Bet you're hoping for a boy, oh I bet it's a boy, blah, blah, blah, shut up. I swear some cases of gd are forced on us my societal harassment.

Lola- the longer I'm here that happier I am, IG was brutal.

[melon]

Hey y'all, good morning! So we DTD again last night--finally got a +opk. Trying to decide when/if to do it again? We did it the 24th, then the 26th (last night) and I *think* I will O tonight/tomorrow (hard to say, but I usually get 24hr of + opks and I think I O the next day?). I am hoping the egg waits until tomorrow to come out so we are in a boy moon sign.

When did you get your +ve OPK? last night or this morning? I got mine last night we are not trying this month anyways... if you got this morning and nothing last night you should be fine to DTD tomorrow morning....

[Flava]

I have some spotting and cervix is super soft and low.Not sure if it's open hard to tell.
So looks like AF is coming. But Im only 9dop wth? Or maybe FF was wrong like I thought and it is 10 dpo.
I guess I see tomorrow.

[3Pink1Blue]

Maybe it's implantation flava! Sorry Hun but I have enough faith for both of us!

[Flava]

lol thanks Jen but with a soft cervix like that I just think of AF.