Jubilant July 2WW (3)

[Pbn3]

He's come around to the idea but has showed pretty much zero interest. I've always envied those who have those bittersweet moments of their husbands being so excited and emotional at the announcement of another bub, mine is as emotional as a plank of wood. He was never interested in touching my tummy, feeling baby move or talking to bub in my belly. But that's my lot in life and I have my boys and now this bub so I am just thankful for that My husband is not a bad man at all, in fact he is a wonderful person, we just think and feel differently about things I suppose [emoji53]

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[mummy2boys]

I have always felt the same- my DH sounds so similar to yours. He has never been interested in feeling baby move etc either. He also didn't enjoy the baby stage and even said he didn't bond with ds2 because he didn't really want another. It's all fine now and he is a great dad now they are older. He is also wonderful in many ways, just not emotionally driven or romantic like me!
I'm sat in the doctors now waiting to be seen. Bleeding is a little heavier so I'm thankful AF seems to be on the way. Will have a large glass of wine tonight and start thinking positively about the future!


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[Mommy2apples]

I'll catch up in a minute, but @pbn is there any sense in doing my digital smiley today? My temperature rose again today.


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[Mommy2apples]

Eek Netti!! So excited for you!!

Thanks mummy! I'm so sorry for what you are going through. I've been there twice. It is so devastating. You want those babies and already have their futures planned out. It makes you want your baby you were promised, but unfair it was ripped away. Anyways there is plenty of us here that will be here for you to vent. If you want another baby, I don't feel it's selfish anyways as you feel something in your heart is missing.
Pbn: I know how you feel, my husband ate his words and felt terrible on our first lost. He said I had four babies, why do you think I'd be excited over a fifth? It hurt me so bad. Then when I started spotting about three weeks later. He said I am so sorry Jennifer, I didn't really mean what I said I, did want that baby and even cried with me. Then the second tore him up, and we took a huge hiatus from ttc for a while. Now, he's still scared, I know he is. We had never went through those, had four healthy babies. We had in our heads that couldn't happen to us... but yea it doesn't discriminate.




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[maximbella]

Mommy, yay for crosshairs! Looks like you’re 3dpo today!! Woohoo!!!

Mummy, I just wanted to share my perspective with you. After having our second daughter, DH and I thought for SURE we were done. Life was good, and we were finally getting into a groove after the madness of having two babies so close together. About a year ago, a friend that also had two daughters announced to us that she was expecting her third, another girl. As happy as I was for her, it changed something inside of me….I couldn’t stop thinking about possibly having another. It took me months of thinking about it and building up courage to even talk to DH about it. He shot me down month after month – he thought that life was great as is, and he didn’t want to tempt fate when we already had two healthy daughters. I agreed, but I was thinking from another perspective – my two daughters. I didn’t want them growing up and only having each other. I come from a family of 4 girls and I know how lucky I am to be able to call them each my best friend. They’re the people that I turn to daily for literally everything! I wanted to give that to my own children, especially when DH and I aren’t around anymore. Life is crazy and unpredictable, and I wanted to at least give them more than just each other for when times get rough, the way that I have it. That’s truly the only argument that worked to convince DH to try for a third (and he’s a lawyer, so trust me convincing him of anything is NOT easy lol). Knowing that they’ll have a small little network that they can depend on is all that I can ask for once we aren’t around to be with them. I would think that your DH would be able to relate to that having lost his parents recently. Not sure it will convince him, but wanted to share a similar situation for what it’s worth….

[Mommy2apples]

Thanks max! Would you test with the dual cb today or just put them away until next cycle?
Or can you even use them again another cycle?

I'm so glad your dh finally agreed to another one and I'm so beyond excited for you!!


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[maximbella]

I probably wouldn't test again mommy, especially since it looks like for sure you've O'd with those temps. But maybe collect the sample and wait to see what pbn says??

[Mommy2apples]

Thanks max! Definitely a good idea!! Cannot wait for your blood results so it puts your mind at ease! I'm so excited for you! I know month after month you've been disappointed, but this is finally it for you!!


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[Pbn3]

Hi mommy2apples! Sorry was watching Game of Thrones [emoji3] I think its pretty safe to say you've oed and wow another rise [emoji3] I wouldn't worry about testing again. And you can absolutely use the tester head again. Just make sure it gives you the flashing book and whatever the other thing is when you insert the first test stick, signalling a new cycle. Alternatively you have another tester head to use from the other box in any case. NOT that you'll need either of them!!!! [emoji6]

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[Mommy2apples]

Thank you pbn!! I'm
Happy today!


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