October Chit Chat Thread for Blue Swayers. All welcome!!

[LolaInLove]

I haven't seen those. How do I find them?

Just go to the "search for charts" section and on the keywords list, drop down and choose "pregnant with boy." You will have a blast looking through them....pretty much every combination of everything you could imagine as far as timing and such. They made me feel a LOT better about not using timing as a sway factor.

[LolaInLove]

No, I got it last night around 8pm. So by 8pm tonight it should be fading out. Should we DTD then, or before? I can *maybe* get DH to come home and get busy (if I can do something with the kids!) but it will be less than 24hrs since the last BD (we DTD at midnight last night). Otherwise, we can do it tonight again after the kids are in bed. Wish I knew exactly when the egg was being released!

I'd say just go for it tonight after the kids are in bed...sounds like that might be the easiest time and won't make you worry that it's too late, kwim?

[CapricornAquarius]

OMG so annoying.
Yeah it would be nice if they could say it in a nice way.
Why can't people just say congratulations.
What did you say to them?

I said, yes it would be nice to get a boy im not going to lie about that, but wer'e happy to get another girl, why wouldnt we be our girls are beautiful!
But deep down im so hoping for a boy, i just cant help it. Ive been waking through the night & just going over things i was doing in regards to swaying, i just hope everything i did was enough.

Im trying so hard to stop thinking about the gender, cause im really starting to feel anxiety at times, & ive got to be healthy for myself & this baby.

Dd1 Dd2 & OMG Im

[CapricornAquarius]

You think so? Not tonight? I am just not sure exactly when I O, so I don't want to miss it. This is hard! I would prefer to do it on the 28th so we get more swimmers, but I am not sure we will need them then if the egg has already left.

Hobber i wish you the best of luck, its scary isnt it, how we just worry so much about doing everything right.

[CapricornAquarius]

Yep, sounds about right, Cap. When I was briefly pregnant in March/April (the mc #2), we told people and got a trillion similar responses about hoping for a boy etc. You just have to come up with a good comeback and let the idiotic commentary roll off your back. I would say, "Actually, we are just hoping for a healthy baby" with a nice hint of sarcasm in there, and people got my drift. Sometimes they mean well and just want to make conversation, but IMO they still deserve a nice saucy comeback.

Annoying isnt it!
How can i stop myself from worry???

[Flava]

Wow, that would be amazingly early for AF....have you ever gotten it early like that before? Prime time for implantation and implantation spotting is 7-10dpo, ya know. I will be KFX that this is what it is!!!

I already got AF 11 dpo and 12 dpo too. today is 9dpo if FF is right. having some cramps too.
Lets see what else...breasts a little sensitive (not so much like last month) also I have this heavy feeling way down same place like the cramps. But mostly after I lay down or after I worked much.Feels like Im full with bees again. And so moody too. I get angry real fast.
Oh and for like 4 days now i want coffee all the time. Im not a big coffee drinker so no clue why.
I was sure I get a bfn but now I don't know...unless early AF ?

[Flava]

CP-we all want boys! That's why we are here! But try to rest and eat healthy for the baby. It may very well be a boy! You got the magic calendar you know

[TTC5]

OMG Ive only just told a few close friends and my family about my bfp & already Ive had, "I think its a boy", "Omg I feel sorry for hubby if he gets another girl", "Obviously you want a boy this time, right?"

Cant people just shut up and say "wow thats awsome, congratulations, without all the other bullshit comments

Its fine with all you guys wishing me a boy, cause only you guys know Ive been swaying.

dd1 dd2 & OMG Im

Time for plan B) Get armed with some snarky remarks to throw back at 'em!

[TTC5]

Hey y'all, good morning! So we DTD again last night--finally got a +opk. Trying to decide when/if to do it again? We did it the 24th, then the 26th (last night) and I *think* I will O tonight/tomorrow (hard to say, but I usually get 24hr of + opks and I think I O the next day?). I am hoping the egg waits until tomorrow to come out so we are in a boy moon sign.

I think you have plenty waiting but if you want to go again for good measure I think that sounds fine

[purplepoet20]

I already got AF 11 dpo and 12 dpo too. today is 9dpo if FF is right. having some cramps too.
Lets see what else...breasts a little sensitive (not so much like last month) also I have this heavy feeling way down same place like the cramps. But mostly after I lay down or after I worked much.Feels like Im full with bees again.
Oh and for like 4 days now i want coffee all the time. Im not a big coffee drinker so no clue why.
I was sure I get a bfn but now I don't know...unless early AF ?

So are you going to test soon just to make sure you are not preg?