Not pregnant -- ME?

[4blue2pink]

TP im in no position to offer real advice here i just truly hope you guys get to the bottom of this, i want nothing more than to see you get your boy you are one of just a few people on this site who i feel really understands the level of GD that i myself went through (although with the opposite gender) reading your posts helped me in feeling like i wasnt alone in how extreme my own GD was.

i dont know if this will be of any help but a friend of mine has 3 children with her partner GBG, however.. he was previously married for around 10 years to another lady i also know, they tried for years to get pregnant-nothing, had ALL the tests done, she was normal but they got told that he was completely 100% infertile, sperm count as bad as it gets type thing.
long story short..they divorce in the end and he meets my other friend, shortly after shes pregnant (NOT planned) baby 100% is his and they have gone on to have 2 more babies (all unplanned so defo no IVF or other treatments)

i have no idea exactly how this has happened but just thought id share since you mentioned formerly infertile couples.

i agree with waiting on the IVF until you have more answers, i know its the last thing you want to hear but it would be awful for you to go through full blown IVF and still have it end in losses, you CAN carry a baby to term, there WILL be an answer to all of this, stay strong we are all with you 100% xx

[Throwaway_panther]

Well I'm pregnant again. Now we see how long this one lasts since my progesterone was 8.33 at 6DPO and I'm already having weird temps and weird HPTs. We are being deemed unexplained RPL -- DH's SA didn't make two REs bat an eye, my RE considers low progesterone an effect and not a cause of loss (despite recommending everyone go on the supplements?), and she even said maybe it's an egg issue despite ALL my numbers being really good and me being 28 and healthy...

Second RE recommended IVF with PGS but said we could try one medicated cycle too... but at this point how much heartbreak am I going to put myself through?

Well, apparently a lot, since here I am.

[ksmom]

Oh TP I hope this babe is a sticky one for you. It's so unfair how much heartbreak you've gone through. My RE once had a couple that were otherwise healthy people but the wife had 6 losses in a row before finally having a healthy baby. No explanation was found. She said some people just have awful luck. I think regarding the progesterone, it's usually low because the pregnancy isn't viable, not it's low and therefore causing losses. I think ivf is a good option for you especially since there's no explanation for your miscarriages. I really really hope though that this pregnancy sticks.

[XXforhubby]

(((Huge Hugs))) TP! I’m hoping and praying with everything I have that this is your sticky bean 🤞🏻[emoji1317]!!


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[Throwaway_panther]

Oh TP I hope this babe is a sticky one for you. It's so unfair how much heartbreak you've gone through. My RE once had a couple that were otherwise healthy people but the wife had 6 losses in a row before finally having a healthy baby. No explanation was found. She said some people just have awful luck. I think regarding the progesterone, it's usually low because the pregnancy isn't viable, not it's low and therefore causing losses. I think ivf is a good option for you especially since there's no explanation for your miscarriages. I really really hope though that this pregnancy sticks.

From what I've read, women under 35 with RPL have the same success rates with IVF and PGS as they do 'expectant management'... so I thin that's why I thought, "Maybe just one more time..."

Especially since I fuly weaned DD and my O moved up 4 days from CD 19 to CD 15!

[DreamingRainbow]

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[ksmom]

At least if you did do ivf with pgd you'd know you're putting in a healthy embryo. I'm sure it would still be scary though, not knowing if it's going to work or not.

[4blue2pink]

Congratulations TP and fingers crossed this is the one!! i know a few people who similar to ksmom's example had multiple losses back to back and then went on to have healthy and uncomplicated pregnancies after, as far as i am aware they also never got answers.

a more detailed example i can give is one of my good friends who lost 7 babies in a row trying for number 1 all early losses and never an answer found, she went on to have a healthy boy followed 3 years later by a healthy girl with no losses in between and neither were ivf, clearly something wasnt right during those 7 losses but it goes to show that whatever causes this doesn't always last forever in every case so lets stay positive

did your dh have a repeat SA done?

thinking of you and sending all the sticky blue dust there is xx

[Throwaway_panther]

HCG at 12DPO came back negative. I still have very faint BFPs everytime I test, but they've never gotten darker than the 9DPO one. I still had hopes we could do this without IVF...

[XXforhubby]

(((Huge Hugs))) My heart goes out to you TP!


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