UK SMOG Wannabes - November (moved from PL)

[deaks66]

I agree to some extent that early tests are a curse, but on the other hand at least I know there is a problem that needs sorting. At least I have the knowledge that an egg is being fertilized and some kind if implantation is occurring to get a bfp. Hopefully I will now be able to find out if there is something such as my LP or low progesterone causing the chemical. It's crap but I will get it sorted.

Just spoke to doc and as I'm having period type flow with some small clots and pain has stopped, she thinks miscarriage has happened and now lining just emptying out. Will still get bfp for a few days. She says I should wait til after another af to start trying. But I have heard most women try straight away. What do you guys think? Feeling a bit calmer and atomic has given me loads of good advice.

[Lavenderlime]

Hiya just popping in to catch up. Just had a super busy weekend trying to finish the garden before the Ds2's party next week.

Deaks so sorry your going through this. I've never had a chemical. But I do know of a person who have had a period type bleed all through her pregnancy.

Is the bleed and cramping like a normal AF, worse, or milder than normal?
I really hope you get some answers on Monday and I really hope it's just your little bean is implanting. x

[deaks66]

Thanks lavender.

The bleed is like a normal af and the cramping was agony for several hours. Pretty sure it's not implantation as had a few tiny clots when I wiped. Plus I don't think I would have got a bfp until after implantation. Just taking it easy today and having a re- think about my sway as can't risk a third chemical ever! Sorry little bean for letting you down

[littlemisswilko]

such a bummer deaks. if it was me i would TTC straight away again as really the fetus hasn't had much time to develop, this has seemed to happen pretty much when Af should have showed. Unless when you consult your Dr he may prescribe something else to maby lengthen your LP such as clomid and advise you on when to start ttc again! Just have to wait and see what happens tomorrow!

[Lavenderlime]

Sorry cross post Littlemiss and Deaks

But i'm good though Littlemisswilko and the playhouse has been colected DP fitted the new one on Friday and I have been painting it all over the weekend. He's just doing the tiles now!

Oh the diet is killing me i've been so ill just seem to catch everything at the drop of a hat. Got another cold now! I was a bit naughty this morning and had breakfast! It was a pancakes with some frozen raspberries heated up in the microware. It was really yummy (would have been nicer with some sugar!) and all the ingredients ar on the girl diet. Just the breakfast bit was bad.

Deaks sorry to hear the doctor thinks it's a MC. My last 3 AF had clots in them? What does that mean. I just thought it ment that my AF were just becoming heavier. I really hope they can give you something to lengthen your LP. x

[deaks66]

Lavender, that's the annoying thing, I already have the prescribed progesterone crinone to lengthen my LP but stopped taking it over my summer cycles to see if my LP was any better on it's own. It was a bit but obviously still borderline. Wish I had taken it but cant look back at what ifs or I would torture myself. Not keen on clomid even though it sways girl so hopefully the doc will just say get back on the progesterone or similar. Will be good to get bloods done though to check there is nothing there that's a problem.

[deaks66]

Sorry forgot to add lavender, not sure about clots on your af. Sure it's normal and if you haven't had bfp then nothing to worry about I wouldn't think. X

[littlemisswilko]

lavender, i sometimes get clots during af! i used to have really heavy periods in which got quite alot of clots but after taking clomid it has had an effect on my periods and made them slightly lighter and dont last as long!

[Petal]

Oh Deaks, im so sorry to read your posts :-( i hope you soon feel better, i know it may not help but the pregnancy just wasnt meant to be, try and look at it like that rather than blaming yourself. Keep your chin up hun, we are all here for you
x

[Petal]

Still no news on this little lazy boy!! Had a thought earlier.. if i do go in to be induced thursday eve he may be born friday...11.11.11 how cool would that be! i may get in the local paper lmao ;-) x