March 2018 TTC & 2ww thread

[Pbn3]

I'm so mad right now!!!!

DS 2012 [emoji170] DS 2014 [emoji170]
After 3 losses had DD 2018 [emoji178]

[Pbn3]

Going to google home kits for hcg quant testing [emoji135]

DS 2012 [emoji170] DS 2014 [emoji170]
After 3 losses had DD 2018 [emoji178]

[emshe]

Well looks like it was a chemical. I'm so confused! This morning my frer is almost stark white, just the tiniest hint of a line. But weirdly my cheapie is darker. I'm trusting the frer though. So sad [emoji17]


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Oh mummy I wish this were easier, hoping that this all becomes clear soon.


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[mummy2boys]

Haha pbn I love how mad you are for me!! I know it's ridiculous over here. They won't do anything at all until 6 weeks, even with the last mc which was possibly ectopic. I've just done another cheapie and it's super faint now so I'm sure this is not working out. So what on earth is wrong?! I can clearly get pregnant. It it just won't stick. Maybe it's old eggs [emoji17]


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[Pbn3]

Please don't think that!!! That's EXACTLY what I thought (too old - and had the bw results to prove it) but still soldiered on. I didn't get my rainbow while ttc but I do have to say although I'd given up who's to say she simply wasn't meant to be whether I'd tried or not? Or maybe *something* compelled me to ask for a massage to alleviate sore neck, shoulder and back muscle pain which I never do, which ultimately led to us bding out of the blue which I know for a fact would never have happened if the massage hadn't started things going..... My thinking is, you can get pregnant, but now it's a matter of the right sperm reachimg the right egg (mens sperm does degenerate too) so you either keep trying and maybe only start hpt testing after af is due or if its become to much consider NTNP?

DS 2012 [emoji170] DS 2014 [emoji170]
After 3 losses had DD 2018 [emoji178]

[ABC.2606]

Mummy ugh I'm sorry it's not clear what's going on right now It's just so frustrating. I feel the same way you do - why do I get pregnant so easily when they wont stick? I really wish your doctors would be more willing to check things out/run tests. Not that the tests will always identify or solve anything but it's still good to have them I think.

Emshe - I think you're right that if you have to add in more calories and such to slow the weight loss doing so from unhealthy foods, sugar, sweets, etc would I think be best for your sway rather than super healthy, high calorie, high nutrient foods. Do you have PCOS? I'm supposed to be doing the PCOS LE (bc of possible IR) and I know atomic told me a few months ago that if my weight was starting to get too low I should add in some sugar just to keep the weight on. I've also seen from her that if you're on metformin that allows you to be a little more lax on your diet - as the metformin can counteract the effects of the sugar.

[ABC.2606]

Going to google home kits for hcg quant testing [emoji135]

DS 2012 [emoji170] DS 2014 [emoji170]
After 3 losses had DD 2018 [emoji178]

Ok you're teasing right - these don't exist?!! Because that would be AMAZING if they did!!

[mummy2boys]

Thanks pbn and abc. It's so good to hear your story pbn, and I love that it happened that way! Fate working at its best. And you have your perfect little girl now [emoji177] DH said earlier maybe it's happening for a reason but I don't want to think like that. It was so hard for me to convince him to try again that I wasn't even going to tell him what's happened but I had a bit of a melt down in the supermarket so had to tell him. It feels worse this time even though it's only very early, I guess it feels like it might never happen.
Abc, yes it's so frustrating!! I'm going to go to the gp next week and ask for tests. Now it's happened again they may do some tests. Everything takes a long time here though.


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[mummy2boys]

Glad it went well star! Did they say what high causes high testosterone?
Emshe, sorry you have been through all that. I know exactly what you mean about missing time with your boys, I am feeling that at the moment. Maybe not trying for a while and just seeing what happens might help. That might be what I do too


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[Girl Dreaming 55]

Mummy I'm so sorry it's not clear right now! Hopefully the gp might take some bloods? I know how difficult it is in UK though! X