May 2018 TTC & 2ww thread

[Pbn3]

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[kittendreams]

Gah I still can't work out how to link it and kids are going crazy I'll try again tonight x

[kikurose]

Yes I wouldn't be surprised if I have t o'd yet I'm sticking with e4d just in case so will attempt tonight again.

Just looked at your chart and you had some great attempts kiku! When do you normally test? Are you a poas addict like most of us ��

I think I'm going to try to wait until next Thursday- 11 dpo. Any negatives before then would just be a mind game after so many months of negatives I got my positives with my first two at 11 dpo, so that's my "magic" date in my head lol!!

We went for it this cycle for sure, compared to the last ones. Who knows if that will help or still nothing, FX for sure over here though!!

Excited to keep tracking you kitten!! FX FX

[gafan]

I hear you all on the sleep problems too. Last night I got goid sleep but several of the nights last week sleep was not great, although in my case I think it was more me and DH than my 3 year old.
Temp still up. I don't know how many DPO or when I will start testing. Pbn thought FF was wrong in marking O.
Last night DH finally clarified why he is so depressed lately and it is half of what I feared. He is dreading having another pregnancy and baby, feeling like we have it good with 1 kid and that 2 will be overwhelming and depress him. He is willing to keep TTC in his resigned "it has always been too late for me to have the kind if life I really want" way. I kind of get his perspective- life is much easier with just one and focusing on your own joy when youve had a rough childhood is understandable- but mothering my son is probably the most joyful experience of my life and he seems to enjoy parts of parenting. There is a ticking clock here!. I hope to have another child, boy or girl (hopefully girl), and I am angry and sad that he always has to be like this about what could be joyful parts of life. I wish I had a partner who at least sometimes could share more joy about what I feel joyful about. And I don't feel i can go to him for support about TTC because of all this. I am grateful to you women for listening.

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[Noemi2017]

Hello kiku, im cd15 and still no positive opk, every month is different for me

[Noemi2017]

I would like pink baby dust from u too

[Noemi2017]

I understand u gafan, husbands are complicated try not to speak about ttc and just let him do what he likes. My husband now after many months of ttc he wants to take it in his “hands” so i really hope he will tired and doesnt want to dtd so often

[kikurose]

I've responded a few times but my posts keep being sent to a moderator...?? Hopefully this one works.

I'll wait until 11 dpo. That's when I had my positives with my first two. Anything before then is a mind game and I don't want to expose myself to more negatives than I need to after so many months of them.

Gafan- I'm sorry. Hugs. TTC is stressful enough without that added burden. I hope it happens for you soon.

Noemi- I see your chart now! Don't know how I missed it. I hope you get that positive OPK soon, I know how hard it is just waiting for it to be positive. I'm sorry you don't have predictable times either to lean on when you're trying to figure it all out.

[wildlyluna]

Officially driving myself crazy!
9DPO- resisting all urges to test, despite cramps, super duper irritated [emoji36] and waking up at 4am!! Seriously why???
Had another temp rise this morning, but I know it doesn’t mean anything .
Everyone is sick here, so I haven’t gone out of the house much .
Thank goodness for work over the next 3 days so I can distract myself.


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[Pbn3]

Gafan huge hugs and total understanding [emoji173] My husband was on board initially for a 3rd but only just, then he got to fed up and started *sulking* as I used to say. I finally explained to him what having another meant to me and why I wanted it so much and it bought me another year or so. After our 2 first losses though I didn't think I'd be able to get him to agree to try again but I did by putting a time limit on it (he's the type of personality that can work to set in stone dates [emoji19])

In my honest opinion I'd stop talking to your dh about it and just keep on trying as long as he is willing to dtd unprotected. Don't mention bding as 'attempts', make him think your wanting the intamicy [emoji6] (not saying you don't of course, just laughing at myself here) just initiate intercouse when its 'go time' without explanation? Do you think that would work? At the end of the day another baby doesn't affect him any really and he will love bub whole heartedly once he/she is here. For you, this is a calling/desire/need and want which you are so within your rights to have. Us women give up so much (willingly) for our family so I believe we should have a much stronger say in when our families are complete [emoji173] I cannot wait to keep watching your chart and while I believe ff has prematurely allocated your crosshairs it is definately possible it is right as well. Just be aware though come testing time you have the possibility of being 2dpo later [emoji4]