Part 2: Due January, February & March 2019

**Pbn3** · July 24th, 2018, 11:52 PM

Omgness Abc [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322] woohoo!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm so so so so so so so so so so so so so (annoyingly [emoji6]) delighted for you!!!!!!!! Eeeeeeeeek!!! you got a pink!!!! Wow your boys are so lucky! A brother AND a sister!! How did hubby react?!

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**ABC.2606** · July 25th, 2018, 12:10 AM

Thanks ladies!! I'm happy! And getting excited about my boy now too - he'll be perfect.

Pbn - he's RELIEVED... LOL! I was literally in tears (scared/unhappy tears) and sat in front of the computer for like, an hour before I got brave enough to open the report. We both felt relief seeing Female / Male and then I started crying again

But he's happy there's a girl in there.

**sunstars** · July 25th, 2018, 01:24 AM

Oh, wow, so happy for you abc, such wonderful news! I have tears in my eyes too... Big hugs!

**Verena** · July 25th, 2018, 02:07 AM

Omgosh ABC, fantastic news!!! I'm so so happy for you!!! [emoji2][emoji2][emoji2] What a beautiful family you will have. Somehow my dream family because I wanted a girl really badly but also wanted to see how a third boy would be compared to his brothers. You have both now [emoji2][emoji813]️

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**shinay** · July 25th, 2018, 02:54 AM

Ahhhh I was going to sleep, but realized I forgot to check if you peek and you did! Your news just made my day. I am sooo thrilled and excited for you. How lucky your boys are. They will get both a brother and sister to play with. I know you have at least one girl baking in there. Time to celebrate [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322]

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**hopper** · July 25th, 2018, 04:47 AM

Originally Posted by ABC.2606

Yup - I caved, LOL. It's a boy and a girl! I can handle that

ARGH!!!! I'm thrilled for you!! Was that moment of seeing Female surreal? I just can't ever imagine seeing or hearing that you know?

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**hopper** · July 25th, 2018, 05:02 AM

Ladies, I know you're all further along that I but just wondering how did people take it when you told them you were pregnant? This is #4 for us. The reaction to #3 was less than stellar on all fronts. I know this news will be received similarly.
My mom called over yesterday and noticed that my anti anxiety meds were missing from the bathroom (she has eyes like a hawk) and she asked if I had weaned off them. I said I had over the last while. To which she replies " and there better be no more babies on the horizon. I know how your mind works!" (Ie, wean off meds and get pregnant straight away) I got really annoyed and refused to say anything about babies. Instead just saying that I've been trying to super slowly wean off them since Christmas and that I'm not my sister (who is taking a shed load of meds for anxiety, depression and everything in between and she will be for possibly her whole life) and that I don't want to be on meds long term.
We spent the remainder of the afternoon together. She made several negative pregnancy comments and then proceeded to tell my sister, who called with her partner of 5 months, that she wouldn't mind seeing another grandchild come from her. My sister has no kids, is in a very new relationship with a guy 7 years her junior and has said he's not at the point in his life of settling down and as I said above has obvious mental health issues (her meds would be potentially harmful to a pregnancy whereas the ones I was taking are the most "fetus friendly" you can get) It just hurt my feelings so much. I'm dreading telling her. My dad will laugh and say congrats. My sister will fake smile and then I'll hear all about how she went home and cried after hearing. My in laws - don't get me started. One SIL out of 5 said congrats on DS3.
I'm not doing any kind of social media announcement. I have a group of college friends who have a private FB group and I posted on it and was told point blank I must be crazy. All this negativity

Trying to tell myself all that matters is our family and how happy the kids will be when we tell them. I was shocked when I saw the BFP this cycle. We didn't think the timing had worked out at all. I don't think it's fully sunk in yet even and all this going on is making it harder to get my head around

Sorry for the essay and I'm sure most of it doesn't even make sense. I just don't know who else to talk to who might "get it". I'm such a positive person. I prefer to build people up even people I don't particularly have much time for. A firm believer of what goes around comes around but finding it all a bit blah at the minute.

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**Babybeaublue** · July 25th, 2018, 05:56 AM

Abc I knew you would get one of each!!! Congrats you are so lucky to get to shop for both!!!!

**Girlswaylondon** · July 25th, 2018, 07:33 AM

And I could cry for you that’s absolutely amazing!! If I was to have twins and boy and a girl would be the dream!!’

**Throwaway_panther** · July 25th, 2018, 08:46 AM

I TOLD YOU ABC! I KNEW YOU HAD A GIRL IN THERE!!!

I am so, so happy for you!! Girl/boy twins are so many of our dreams!!!

How are you feeling?!?!?

ETA: I am literally so excited for you I want to scream it from my sig and post everywhere lol!! Healthy girl and healthy boy!! So, so wonderful after all you've been through!

I hope when you're ready you'll share your name plans haha. I love seeing twin names together!

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