August 2ww and TTC thread 2018

[Pbn3]

I don't know. I thought the ID had to be very obvious like below the coverline. If temps go back up tomorrow, that might be a good sign. Fx

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Yes usually implantation dips are characterized by a dip down to or below coverline. Not everyone sees an implantation dip though remember. It's more common to not see one than to see one. Usually a week or so after o a secondary estrogen surge can cause a dip in temp and that is what we most commonly see.

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[Pbn3]

Kikurose I second what emshe said about creatng a thread for atomic to respond to. I also agree that attempts have a qay of just working out most times and the less thought and stress you put into it the better [emoji173] I know it's hard to remember but it takes a single sperm to fertilise an egg so while smep certainly ups your odds, if you only get one attempt in at 'go' time then you still have every chance. I would just bd whenever possible at least every few days and then if using opks try for an extra attempt then. If it works out with hubbys work great! If not, you'll still have a viable attempt by dtd every few days anyway [emoji4] As for the swaying side though, definately ask Atomics advice. She has a great way of calming things down with her explanations and advice [emoji173]

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[mummy2boys]

Emshe, yes we had a lovely day out thank you!
Thank you Mommy, yes it did feel good to get that result. Thanks for the screenshot, that’s really helpful [emoji106]
Pbn, thank you for your honesty. I totally get what you are saying and I too have done a bit of googling and I won’t be putting my faith in the test. It has just made me chill out a little though and I suppose that must be a good thing as my anxiety is pretty high at the moment. The waiting is so hard!! I just feel in limbo. How did you cope whilst waiting for your first scan?


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[kikurose]

Emshe thank you! Great idea on the am!! And thanks for the chart- when do you usually O after opk? Fx for you this cycle!

Mummy thank you! I’ve heard loss sways pink too, but I know several people who had boys when they got pregnant right after losses. And I was on the diet for seven months so you’re right- hope some of that stuck [emoji51]




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[kikurose]

Kikurose I second what emshe said about creatng a thread for atomic to respond to. I also agree that attempts have a qay of just working out most times and the less thought and stress you put into it the better [emoji173] I know it's hard to remember but it takes a single sperm to fertilise an egg so while smep certainly ups your odds, if you only get one attempt in at 'go' time then you still have every chance. I would just bd whenever possible at least every few days and then if using opks try for an extra attempt then. If it works out with hubbys work great! If not, you'll still have a viable attempt by dtd every few days anyway [emoji4] As for the swaying side though, definately ask Atomics advice. She has a great way of calming things down with her explanations and advice [emoji173]

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Thank you so much, pbn <3

[Pbn3]

Mummy2boys as awful as this sounds I just assumed I wouldn't get that far... when I got to the dating scan I was measuring 2? days behind and in my mind the hb was too slow. So more waiting to mc until I got my NIPT results back at 11-12w which showed bub had no abnormalities. Only then did I start feeling a glimmer of hope but it wasn't until my 12w scan and seeing bub happy and healthy in there that I actually allowed myself to believe that this was going to be my take home baby.

I'm not sure what to say here as of course I want you to have hope and I have a gazillion truckloads of it for you but I'm not going to insult your intelligence either by saying you shouldn't worry and try not to stress as once you've been through repeated losses it's impossible. All I can say is have hope but let it be cautious hope until you get to your first scan [emoji173] Feel like a big fat meanie for saying all that [emoji17] but life isn't all rainbows and unicorns. Just know I'm here for you to vent, stress and celebrate with at any time. You can pm me whenever you need and I'll always be honest with you [emoji847]

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[mummy2boys]

Thank you Pbn, I truly appreciate all your help, kindness and honesty. I don’t know what we would all do without you in this group! I am so, so happy that you got your precious little girl and that all the worry you had was utterly worth it in the end. I know I will continue to stress and freak out until/if I manage to make it through to the 12 week scan and probably after too [emoji51] I am a big worrier unfortunately. Thank goodness this group is here to have somewhere safe and supportive to get all this stuff out! Thank you again [emoji4]


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[Pbn3]

Thankyou mummy2boys [emoji173] I don't know how I would've got through the last few years without the wonderful ladies on this site. I'm just simply paying it forward plus seeing bfps (especially long and heartbreaking in the making ones) brings such a joy and happiness that sometimes I feel like a bfp parasite [emoji23]

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[jgojah]

Thanks jgo! Pray for me!!! So much I wish I can join you in the due group soon! I'm feeling okay, the wait is the worst as you'd know too well. Noticeable cramping and sore boobs. I'm 8 dpo today. I want to test on 10 Dpo, but can't bear the negative. Didn't you test with opk first? Does a pos opk around 10dpo indicate pregnancy?

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With my last pregnancy I read that a positive opk may indicate pregnancy and so I tried it and it was positive. So this time because I was so scared to test and see a negative i decided to just try the opk and see what happens and because it was positive I got some courage to do the hpt. I did mine at 11dpo with pretty concentrated fmu.

Most sites I read that the opk would turn positive after a positive hpt. I was just too chicken this time to do the hpt first lol

[Pbn3]

Hopeful how are you? Have you got pics of your pos opks? 4 in a row is unusual but I've seen it a couple times so it does happen. Terribly frustrating though [emoji17]

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