TTC BOY November Chit Chat Thread - All welcome!!

**LolaInLove** · November 11th, 2011, 02:54 PM

Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

Amen, sister!

I don't consider it cheating at all. Men are visual creatures... I know he's going to look, so why not have it in a controlled environment?

Your story about your ex is pretty extreme, I think. I would definitely not like it if DH started doing those things! And good for you for turning the tables on him. I haven't ever looked at a guy site, but I doubt DH would care if I did. I went to see the Chipendales (sp?) dancers once, and he didn't care at all.

It is kinda extreme, and he's not the only one.....I had a guy friend from childhood who got divorced after 10 years because all that turned him on was Asian lesbians. Turns out he's marrying an Asian girl tomorrow actually, but I digress......it got to be such an obsession that he could not get it up with his wife anymore, and he was online several times a day.

I also think it depends a lot on how secure you are personally with your marriage and yourself, ya know? I say that because I went through a bad insecure period with this weight gain this past year. Of course, knowing my DH is around blithe little ballerinas all day long and his sex drive was dropping like the temperature and I was getting fatter by the minute definitely messed with my mind. However, normal me would not really care about the porn either as long as it wasn't turning into a fetish that was bad for the marriage.

**LolaInLove** · November 11th, 2011, 02:56 PM

Originally Posted by Bec

I don't have much time so will catch up later but I really need some advice!

My post O temps haven't been as high as they usually are and yesterday I had cramps all day. This morning I noticed alot of watery CM so decided to do a OPK just for the fun of it (I know, should have just ignored the watery CM) and it came up positive (8am). But even darker than the positive I got a few days ago. So now I am wondering did I actually O at all the other day or is this O coming up now? I just did another OPK (11am) and it is negative and fading out. Kicking myself that I didn't do an OPK yesterday when I had the cramps. So do you think if we DTD again tonight I am in girl territory? I don't want to miss an attempt but I don't want to risk girl territory either.

Bec, I'd go for it again. I don't believe timing matters though.

Hey 3, refresh my memory, when did you dtd for Charlie? (I love saying that!)

**LolaInLove** · November 11th, 2011, 02:57 PM

Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

OOOhh, I would love to hear some of your stories!!

Yea, me too, LOL! Maybe we should get NBP to start a naughty thread on the private board?

**LolaInLove** · November 11th, 2011, 03:29 PM

WP, sorry you are having the chest stuff now! I've had it for 3 weeks now, a low grade bronchitis I think. Only thing that helps is Mucinex (which I don't mind taking now, LOL) and steam! I had to get a vaporizer/humidifier for our room and the girl's room...the heat dries us up so much. I hope you feel better soon, mama!

5, what a crazy dream! Is it cold where you are in Aus? Maybe it's a sign you should come visit the States!

Bec, how is your opk now? Strange month with opks, eh? I hope you guys decided to go again. I think we will try naturally for a year until we look any further into IVF. It would be SO much better for us to have it happen naturally, just financially. I know it would be worth it, but it would be a bite for a long time to make that payment plus figure out how to pay for one of us to stay home with baby for a bit. And I would not be down with strippers, either, for exactly the same reason....not trusting them. And our DH's don't need some real live lady shaking her boobs in his face, they have us for that. The internet is a different story.

**DoulaMama** · November 11th, 2011, 03:43 PM

Originally Posted by LolaInLove

Yea, me too, LOL! Maybe we should get NBP to start a naughty thread on the private board?

Omg! That would be hilarious! Yeah...these stories are for people that can handle some pretty weird things!!! Let's just say- I used to sell "make your own dildo kits"(molded from your own penis) and a 70yo man came in asking exactly how to do it! Trying not to laugh was one of the most difficult things I've ever had to do! The other stories are wayyyy raunchier....rated R

LOL! Oh...I had a guy come in and grab "the fist". It's a 15" long dildo in the shape of a fist and forearm!! Along with that he plunked a BUCKET of lube down down beside it on the front desk!!! I just rang it all up, very professional and all, and asked him if he wanted a bag

LOL! He was a little red in the face when he said, "yes".Hahahahahahaha! Omg... The things I've seen!!!

**DoulaMama** · November 11th, 2011, 03:47 PM

Plus, when you work in one of those places, many people assume you're in the movies that are on the shelves... Nice. I don't know how many times I was asked what I did "outside" of work. Yech!!! Um, I go to school, thanks. This is solely to make money and to laugh at all the weirdos we have in our town....

**LolaInLove** · November 11th, 2011, 03:48 PM

Haha, DM, that is so funny! I remember going to a sex store for the first time and having my jaw drop at all the interesting toys and videos! I swear, some of the stuff people are into......I just felt prude in there and I ain't that prude in real life! I remember IG used to have a private forum about sex and marriage stuff, we should have one here too, I bet it would be helpful to a lot of gals.

**TTC5** · November 11th, 2011, 03:50 PM

Originally Posted by LolaInLove

OR IMPLANTATION! 5, you get pg easy, I would not doubt you get a bfp this time!!!

I hope so!! But don't see an implatation dip on my chart?...

**LolaInLove** · November 11th, 2011, 03:53 PM

Originally Posted by TTC5

I hope so!! But don't see an implatation dip on my chart?...

But not everyone gets a dip!

**TTC5** · November 11th, 2011, 03:53 PM

Originally Posted by LolaInLove

WP, sorry you are having the chest stuff now! I've had it for 3 weeks now, a low grade bronchitis I think. Only thing that helps is Mucinex (which I don't mind taking now, LOL) and steam! I had to get a vaporizer/humidifier for our room and the girl's room...the heat dries us up so much. I hope you feel better soon, mama!

5, what a crazy dream! Is it cold where you are in Aus? Maybe it's a sign you should come visit the States!

Bec, how is your opk now? Strange month with opks, eh? I hope you guys decided to go again. I think we will try naturally for a year until we look any further into IVF. It would be SO much better for us to have it happen naturally, just financially. I know it would be worth it, but it would be a bite for a long time to make that payment plus figure out how to pay for one of us to stay home with baby for a bit. And I would not be down with strippers, either, for exactly the same reason....not trusting them. And our DH's don't need some real live lady shaking her boobs in his face, they have us for that. The internet is a different story.

Oh well I live in the southern most state so it is the cooler one without a doubt but we are starting to come in to warmer weather now

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