TTC girl - September 2012

[HopeandDreamG]

AF started no baby...

Booooooooooooooooooooo. I'm sorry this is Kraisy.

[jennaesue]

Anyone still waiting to ovulate? My cycles are just starting back up after I weaned ds3 about a month ago. I did have spotting about two weeks ago, I'm not sure if it was really a period. It occurred at the beginning of my third week of my last pack of bcp, so I was instructed by my OB to finish the pack. Which has me thinking I probably won't ovulate for another week. I am going to start doing opks on Sunday, I think. I am getting tired of waiting!

[prayforprincess]

oh I am sorry Kraizy.

I really hate all this.

I am 10dpo today and I tested this am. Bfn. I just don't get it. This all used to be so easy for me. We dtd 1x on o-4, 2x on o-3 and 1x on o day. 4 times in the fertile window. No j&d, no rephresh, only took zyrtec like 2x, no LR for dh and he did not fr or abstain. I really thought for sure I might get pg this cycle.
I am just so frustrated. I am not getting pg and I am letting everything go.
Its so hard to read other's sway's who only dtd once and dh took LR and lowered his count and they did j&d and used rephresh and cytec etc. and they got pg on attempt 1 or 2.
Here I am letting it all go pretty much and I am still not getting pg!!! I feel like either I am getting old (which I am only 30!!!) or doing all the ht messed me up royally.

I am just so lost with all this -- I can't even get pg, no less have a baby girl. And once I do finally get pg, if I get pg -- I am calling it now...I know after all I have been through and this 2 year long road of disappointment and heart ache I have traveled, I will have another boy. Just watch...I know it, cause that is my luck.

[BeadinMom]

Aww....P4P, I feel you...I really, REALLY do.
It's going to all work out...and the longer it takes the more chance it will be a girl.

I'm so confused right now with my cycle, I have no idea if I'm coming or going. I just hope this craziness pays off in the end.

Thinking of you...♥

[Lassie1982]

pfp i feel your pain and i know how hard it is.
Don't be too discouraged yet, in my bfp cycle i had a massive temp drop on 9dpo, and negative hot so i thought i was out - i even started a thread "what can i do to finally get pregnant"
10dpo - negative hpt
12 dpo - faint positive..
you are definitely still in the game this month

so you are not out yet...

also try and remember that this is the first month that you have let it all the sway go, it takes the average trying couple 6 months to get pregnant, and this is the first month that you have had 'proper' attempt..

I'm the same age as you (turning 30) and its easy to feel like that old, but in fertility terms its not..

Try and stay positive, and remember that the longer you are on the diet, and the longer it takes to conceive, the more likely it is to be a girl...

[Lassie1982]

so sorry kraizy i know there are no words to take away the anger and hurt, but you are in my thoughts xo

[HopeandDreamG]

Pray~ I am so sorry, but like the other ladies said at 10dpo there is still a chance.
I honestly think its not happening for me and you bc of how bad we want it. I think I need to go adopt a baby girl, bc then I will have a BFP. I'm joking but I'm not!

[dannikins]

sorry kraizy...
suregena your chart is looking nice....

[prayforprincess]

Thanks Ladies -- I know h&d -- what is going on with us??
11dpo today and still bfn. If I get another bfn tomorrow I know I am out.

Next month I am just going to be crazy strict on the diet (only rices 2 x day) af-o, lose weight, and take the supplements. That's it. I'm not going to have my dh fr or abstain - in fact I will try to dtd every 3 days to keep his count healthy and start bd-ing every night cd12 thru ovulation day (usually cd16 for me). Maybe take one zyrtec every other day cd11, 13 & 15.
I just can't miss a prime day of dtd, I need all the swimmers i can get and I think dtd 2x in one day for him really lowers his count too much.
The only supplement I don't take is vitex. Do you think that would help me to get pg?? I know I am ovulating and I have pretty regular cycles -- o cd15-17 every month.

[HopeandDreamG]

Any news pray?

Dannikins- love the new pic!