Pre-seed and gender

[atomic sagebrush]

Atomic, here http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-...-pre-seed.html you say this:''How to use Pre-Seed to sway blue - Use some Pre-Seed every other day starting after AF is over (it doesn't need to be a lot, because it's expensive...just enough so your body is somewhat used to it when your attempt rolls around) then a bit more every day during your fertile window and then ALSO as a lube during your attempt. You may want to use the Pre-Seed before bedtime to allow it to spread through the VJ without coming back out. "

So do I use it every other day whether we BD or not or just when we BD?
Unfortunately, my DH is not capable of BDing 2-4 days af-O, so I'll be aiming for O-5, O-3 and O-1. So then lots of PreSeed?
If you say to put it before bedtime, then we should BD in the morning for blue outcome?

(The more I think, the more I'm sure, DH and I are designed to produce baby girls )

Oh sorry somehow I missed this the first time thru.

Yes, I would have you use it every other day or even every day, before you are starting your attempt, just in case your body doesn't "like" it and wants to wash it away. Not a ton of it, just about the size of a coin or so.

The only reason to use some at bedtime is to make sure it has time to melt and get into all the nooks and crannies. You can have your attempt at any time of day you like. Use more Preseed with your attempt. Unlike the pink sway jellies, there's no such thing as too much Preseed, it's fine to use a coin's worth at bedtime, again the next morning, and then the following night for your sway.

I am a little concerned with the timing of your attempts - timing doesn't sway, of course, but we want max numbers of sperm onhand to meet the egg and O-5 and O-3, while they will still help and are good for DH's sperm count, are still a bit far out to provide those max numbers of sperm. Is there any way you could have more than one attempt from O-1 thru O day? Or even an attempt on O-2? Highest rates of sperm survival is O-2, o-1, and O Day so by DTD more than once during that time period, you ensure you're getting good numbers of sperm to the egg.

[Feeling Blue]

I used preseed and got preg with ds2. Had no idea it swayed blue!!!

[justlikeme]

Me too I used withouth knowing it will sway blue and got a boy, I used 10 minutes befor BD I think is great for blue swayers

[mrs magoo]

I used preseed with DS1, just wanted to get pregnant asap and it seemed like good idea, only used it just before attempts as lube kinda thing. Beauitiful boy was result!

[atomic sagebrush]

I so appreciate hearing from people and y'all taking the time to share your experiences with us! Invaluable!

[kre776]

Hello,

We had our DS with preseed but we didn't know about swaying then.

DS is now 3 and we would love to have a baby girl. I'm worried as we had several months of failed TTC, charting, good timing etc. before using the preseed and getting our BFP. Everything for girl sways seems to make conception less likely and I do wonder whether we'll get anywhere without preseed helping us along! I'm 34, DH is 38, no known fertility issues.

I've been trying to do the LE diet, I have to take baby aspirin for another condition. At the end of the day another boy would be just as loved and wanted as a girl but I can just picture myself giving in and getting preseed after a few failed attempts, having boy no 2 and wondering if I should have been more patient!

The trouble is I have a health condition (unrelated to fertility) and have to change medication when TTC, so really we need to get pregnant ASAP to shorten the time I'm off my normal medication. At the end of the day a boy would be just as wanted and loved but you can't help but wonder what if

[atomic sagebrush]

Lots of people have gotten girls on Preseed too, though. It's not a magic bullet and if you need it, you need it.

[kre776]

Thank you - it's not easy to be patient when you're TTC!!!

[Pumpkin2011]

I was on Clomid but had a very boy friendly diet and used Pre seed with several attempts and conceived a boy.

[Ciansmummy]

We used preseed also and had a boy! Didn't know about swaying.