♥ May 2011 Blue Cheer Squad Thread ♥

[babydes56]

I guess my urine was diluted yesterday when i did the opk & got a negative because i've just tested today & it's +. So here's wot we've done, Wed opk+, 4 days abstinence so dtd, Thurs dtd again although i had - opk (urine diluted) & today opk +. My temps havent gone up but will probably tomorrow. Should i dtd again today?

I'm a bit bummed because the false negative test yesterday threw me off, if i had known it would be positive today i'd have waited 48hrs & dtd today. Well what's done is done, just waiting for ovulation confirmation. Cramps here & there nothing too strong

[LolaInLove]

How do you feel about it? By the way how's the dieting going? Also what's your plan for the next few months? I love your relaxed attitude about swaying, i am much more relaxed than when i started

Eh, it just makes me sad. But I'm feeling sorry for myself, clearly. It stings because he was so abusive to me and now everything goes so well in his life....it's just hard sometimes (COME ON, KARMA!!!! WHERE ARE YOU????). Anyway, it is what it is. Diet is going fine...I have no appetite, so really not eating much at all. Will start being healthier and eating more and doing diet again at beginning of July. I think we will ttc in August, but I've only got 3 months left in me to actually try, then we are just going to NTNP (not trying not preventing) because I'm getting tired of this.

Ok, thank you Karma. That Natalie Merchant song "Jealousy" just came on the radio. Clearly that is my problem.

[LolaInLove]

I think we might. Tonight will be 4 days abstained and I just did another opk and it's negative. So I've learned I can't use 2nd morning urine either to test. I really am not sure. I'm still hoping to see a + opk before DTD but most likely tonight either way and then 48 hrs later. Idk, I'm in denial yet still hopeful. Still bleeding.....augh...but I'm not whinning, Lola!

LOL, whine away girl....my opks will be + no matter what concentration or time of day pee it is when you have the surge, so just keep testing! I would dtd tonight though!

[LolaInLove]

LOL! Oh yeah! Somethin 'bout that a$$. He does like my new and not improved cushin for the pushin

I am afraid this ttc thing with doggy all the time is going to convert my DH into an ONLY doggy guy. Yikes. (I had a boyfriend back in college who would only be hard if that was the case.) I guess I'll just have to lay down the law.

[SpicyTunaSushi]

I guess my urine was diluted yesterday when i did the opk & got a negative because i've just tested today & it's +. So here's wot we've done, Wed opk+, 4 days abstinence so dtd, Thurs dtd again although i had - opk (urine diluted) & today opk +. My temps havent gone up but will probably tomorrow. Should i dtd again today?

I'm a bit bummed because the false negative test yesterday threw me off, if i had known it would be positive today i'd have waited 48hrs & dtd today. Well what's done is done, just waiting for ovulation confirmation. Cramps here & there nothing too strong

I wouldn't worry- as long as you have dtd, you are fine! It is impossible to predict these things. We deal with it every month!

[LolaInLove]

Is it a lot of blood, i wonder what could be causing it? Well i've just done opk & it's negative...this is the first for me. I usually have 2-3days +++, weird. I can only hope that last night wasnt too late

Hey, glad you dtd then! You are probably just fine, but you COULD do it again!

[LolaInLove]

CRAP CRAP CRAP...my CM just turned...that 'almost' positive line apparently was my positive! I'm so bummed! We DTD O-3 so would you ladies do the BD tonight, just hope the O-3 did the trick?? According to Shettles, O-3 is the girl zone. What would you do??

Are you doing 2 opks a day? Ugh, I know that is hard. Don't worry about Shettles, he was wrong. I would maybe hold off unless you REALLY just want to get pg this month.

[LolaInLove]

Yes wants to watch it all haha and I am the same =(

Well.....you could have a couple of glasses of wine and TRY it one night, I guess? I think you might enjoy that, once you get over feeling timid about it. Maybe tell him you are open to that but he must make you feel comfortable and all, not get up and stare are you like you are a porn star or anything. I know, right, 3pnb, that makes me icked out also.

I have the freaking opposite problem, though....my DH is more reserved that I wish he was.

[babydes56]

Eh, it just makes me sad. But I'm feeling sorry for myself, clearly. It stings because he was so abusive to me and now everything goes so well in his life....it's just hard sometimes (COME ON, KARMA!!!! WHERE ARE YOU????). Anyway, it is what it is. Diet is going fine...I have no appetite, so really not eating much at all. Will start being healthier and eating more and doing diet again at beginning of July. I think we will ttc in August, but I've only got 3 months left in me to actually try, then we are just going to NTNP (not trying not preventing) because I'm getting tired of this.

Ok, thank you Karma. That Natalie Merchant song "Jealousy" just came on the radio. Clearly that is my problem.

Dont worry, i believe in Karma too! All the bad he did will come back to him, be it soon or later it will happen. So you'll only start trying from July, you'll be really boosted then so all the best. My ex DH was an a$$hole too, i cant believe i spent 6yrs with him, i'm soooo much happier now it's unbelievable! Only wish i had met my current DH sooner so i could had all the kids we've wanted by now

[babydes56]

I wouldn't worry- as long as you have dtd, you are fine! It is impossible to predict these things. We deal with it every month!

It is impossible to predict every month, well i've done what i can the rest is out of my hands. I always think that surely not every boy was conceived dead on ovulation day.