September TTC Boy Chit Chat and Such Thread

[Flava]

lola- I think only like 3 ppl due in June so that's why there is no group.

princessap- Im so sorry! But I hope you don't give up .

[princessap]

OH NO, this makes me so sad. I am so so sorry, Princess. I totally understand how you feel. Maybe you guys can do what we are which is NTNP, and just see what happens over time? We are giving up in our minds, but not going to quit dtd around O time, know what I mean? But maybe it is easier for us to just give up totally, that way you can move on with life and not think about it anymore. I am just so sorry, I am sending you lots of virtual hugs. xxxxxoooooo

thanks lola. I feel like someone has ripped my heart out. i dont understand why this keeps happening. We had all the genetic testing done and it is all normal. I was on progesterone this time too. I am just sooo sad and frusturated. My dH wants to stop trying unless we can get some answers. It hurts him too much to watch me be devastated again.

I always wanted four kids and now that wont happen. Three probably wont happen. It sucks and hurts so much.

So now I sit and wait for AF to come and remind me of another loss.

[princessap]

lola- I think only like 3 ppl due in June so that's why there is no group.

princessap- Im so sorry! But I hope you don't give up .

Thanks. But i think we are done unless we get some answers. my heart is broken and i am trying so hard not to cry in front of my girls.

[Flava]

You are a size ONE? Jeez, Flava, you are so lucky! I was a size 10 before this diet, and now I think 12 is getting a little small....

Nope not anymore! that's why I said I hope I did not get fat for nothing like Jen said! Normally Im size 1 but I put on over 20 lbs and Im fat all over and yesterday I had to buy new jeans size 8!!!!!!!!!!!!! so hate it!
I know girls a lot bigger then me and they look a lot better because I have fat rolls on me and they don't.
I got fat for #4 too and she is a girl...so for sure I will be sad about all this fat if this is a girl too .
Im reading right now how to loose weight or at least don't put on any in pregnancy.
Looks like it's should be easy and safe just have to eat a lot more healthy food . I really just hope not to put on or just a little. So I will try.

[Flava]

I know I didn't touch my cervix, because I was really careful about that. But I probably just used too much. I will do less next time. Did you get your finger wet before you put the BS on it?

It never hurts me so I dont know...and yes I use water.

[Flava]

Thanks. But i think we are done unless we get some answers. my heart is broken and i am trying so hard not to cry in front of my girls.

Ohh I know it hurts so much I also lost 7 ! We don't know why all happened ...but was thinking I not gonna let this win for sure and the thing about loss we can just have a perfect pregnancy next time.
But for sure it is very sad! Hope you guys feel better soon!

[zanacal]

Oh, Thank you so much for that! I don't know anyone that has used the Snuza. What hammock did you use? I also plan on using the Miyo (Moffi) hammock and I did kinda figure they were sort of useless after they roll over but s/b great in the beginning when I'll be the biggest stress case.

I have an Amby. I used it for all 3 boys and absolutely loved it, they all slept great as newborns too. I'm in two minds about whether to use it again - but actually I'd forgotten about the Snuza so that might help me make my mind up! It's definitely a great reassurance. It's quite funny when you forget to take it off though (I also found it reassuring to have on when carrying DS3 in a sling!) and you start wondering what the ticking noise is then realise it's your baby!! Confused a few grandparents and aunties too!

[princessap]

Ohh I know it hurts so much I also lost 7 ! We don't know why all happened ...but was thinking I not gonna let this win for sure and the thing about loss we can just have a perfect pregnancy next time.
But for sure it is very sad! Hope you guys feel better soon!

Wow you are a stronger woman than me. Did u get any answers for any of your losses? what are they doing differently now with this pregnancy? I hope in time i can be strong enough to try again but it just hurts so much to have two healthy pregnancies and then have 3 miscarriages in a
row!

[zanacal]

I'm so sorry for your loss Princess x

[LolaInLove]

thanks lola. I feel like someone has ripped my heart out. i dont understand why this keeps happening. We had all the genetic testing done and it is all normal. I was on progesterone this time too. I am just sooo sad and frusturated. My dH wants to stop trying unless we can get some answers. It hurts him too much to watch me be devastated again.

I always wanted four kids and now that wont happen. Three probably wont happen. It sucks and hurts so much.

So now I sit and wait for AF to come and remind me of another loss.

Oh, honey, believe me, I know exactly how you feel. I have been grappling with the same thoughts of never having another child. I always wanted three, and now I just have the two girls with my ex-husband and none with my new one who is the love of my life. And those m/c are so heartbreaking, because just when you think your dream is coming true, it's gone. I am so sorry, and if you need to chat, let's PM some more. Try to pamper yourself if you can, rest, eat ice cream and watch movies in bed, whatever you can do to get through it.