Due Sept/Oct/Nov 2016

[Quinn31]

How r u handling the wait?

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Last week was fine but this week I'm really nervous. I shouldn't be since dh isn't supposed to tell me as long as the baby is healthy. I was really hoping he'd get them today and then be so excited it's a boy, he had to tell me, lol. I don't see that happening.

How are you doing?

[twointow83]

Quinn- A nervous wreck. The gender I definitely want to know. I'd be lying if I pretended I didn't care. BUT I keep getting this panic-y feeling that it will come back showing a problem. And I am off work the rest of the week so I have nothing but time on my hands. Tried to "spring clean" today but started contracting again so I am resting again now :/

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[Quinn31]

Quinn- A nervous wreck. The gender I definitely want to know. I'd be lying if I pretended I didn't care. BUT I keep getting this panic-y feeling that it will come back showing a problem. And I am off work the rest of the week so I have nothing but time on my hands. Tried to "spring clean" today but started contracting again so I am resting again now :/

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At first I was trying to focus on gender because thinking about health made me too scared, now they're both freaking me out. Everyone on my birth board had their Progenity results in a week so I was hoping for today but I don't know. I actually want to avoid dh so I don't find out I am feeling better about another girl. I'd be sad to never raise a boy but I love my girls.

I hope you can relax but it does suck when you have nothing to do but think. Do you have anyone that can come over and distract you?

[twointow83]

At first I was trying to focus on gender because thinking about health made me too scared, now they're both freaking me out. Everyone on my birth board had their Progenity results in a week so I was hoping for today but I don't know. I actually want to avoid dh so I don't find out I am feeling better about another girl. I'd be sad to never raise a boy but I love my girls.

I hope you can relax but it does suck when you have nothing to do but think. Do you have anyone that can come over and distract you?

nope. Just my kids lol and they are more worried about electronics lol. Hubby will be home soon but he's not much of a chatter box unless I am in a mood and don't want to be bothered lol, then he'll talk my ear off. Go figure!

[Quinn31]

So my stupid ob called and didn't leave a message. I'm guessing they were calling with my results and then noticed the note in the system to call my husband. I immediately called him and asked him a silly question to see how he would react. He seemed a little off and kind of annoyed with my stupid question but I'm hopeful that either they didn't call him with the results or he was just trying to play it off. I feel like if he had just heard girl, he would have been more obviously upset.


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[twointow83]

So my stupid ob called and didn't leave a message. I'm guessing they were calling with my results and then noticed the note in the system to call my husband. I immediately called him and asked him a silly question to see how he would react. He seemed a little off and kind of annoyed with my stupid question but I'm hopeful that either they didn't call him with the results or he was just trying to play it off. I feel like if he had just heard girl, he would have been more obviously upset.


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Oh no, so frustrating. I couldn't do it. I'd have to know (((hugs)))

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[Quinn31]

Oh no, so frustrating. I couldn't do it. I'd have to know (((hugs)))

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If he wants to tell me in a couple weeks/months when he has his emotions under control, I'm okay with that. He was visibly sad when we found out about dd2. I know he didn't want to be and he is a great girl dad but it was obvious. I spent the rest of my pregnancy sad for him. I just wanted to enjoy this one because it's my last pregnancy. Finding out in general is not something I'm opposed to.

I was just so excited because "the most accurate" Chinese gender chart said boy for this one and girl for my previous two. Oh well. At least if he's heard by now and not contacted me, the baby is healthy which I care about more than anything.

[lala22]

That was a good way of putting it. I guess since I had the test, I now feel like all these dreams and hard work are coming to an end. I wish I was more positive but after two girls, it doesn't seem like I can produce boys.

Plus a friend just lost her baby at 20 weeks and hadn't had the dna testing so now I'm nervous about those results. It seems so stupid to worry about gender when their health is more important. I think both my dh and I realized that once we heard the news.

What was wrong with her baby? That's so sad.

[twointow83]

That was a good way of putting it. I guess since I had the test, I now feel like all these dreams and hard work are coming to an end. I wish I was more positive but after two girls, it doesn't seem like I can produce boys.

Plus a friend just lost her baby at 20 weeks and hadn't had the dna testing so now I'm nervous about those results. It seems so stupid to worry about gender when their health is more important. I think both my dh and I realized that once we heard the news.

My heart goes out to them. Hugs and prayers for them [emoji22]

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[Quinn31]

What was wrong with her baby? That's so sad.

She won't disclose right now. She's so heartbroken. It was her first baby and he took a year to conceive. She was so excited to find out if it was a boy or a girl and instead found out he won't make it. [emoji22]