September 2013 babies!!

[Honeychild]

Northern!!!!!!! I'm SO happy for you!!! Reading the last two pages of overnight posts was like a cliff hanger here, but what a great ending!! Congratulations!

Mum23, it's amazing how much numbers do our heads in in this sort of situation. Your results actually sound good overall, but once you get a scary figure it's hard to relax until you know more. I hope you get some peace of mind soon. That nub looks so boyish though, and it sounds like the sonographer thought you had a high chance of boy too!

Thorz lactulose is fantastic if you can get it. I've been finding fibre makes it worse this time round too, I've been taking a senna-and-something-or-other tablet which is a bit naughty but such a relief!! That, coffee, avoiding bread, and drinking water like im a fish seems to be working for the most part.

[4Giffins]

So..just wondering! What do you gals say when ppl ask you if your hoping for the oppisite gender? Of course I have been getting the are you wanting a boy, I hope its a boy, and even its a boy! Comments non-stop lately! I dont know why but its starting to bother me! I know its to be expected but Im just not sure how to respond. I usually say, yes that would be nice or we wouldnt mind a boy..but I feel akward about it and usually stumble over my words! Lol I hate all the pressure and am really debating weather I should even find out the gender..

[fish2012]

Hey know exactly how you feel we've never found out before I haven't told anyone we have an early scan so I may tell people after the 20 wk that we bottled it and didn't find out I think partly it depends on what the outcome is lol!

Most of my friends know I want a girl thou none know we swayed, with the twin shock I thoughtlessly told everyone we would find out but certainly if its boy boy I don't think I'll share

Everyone says to me oh it'll probably be two boys and I kinda just yeah probably

[Thorz300]

Lol this comes up a lot and I say that boys are all I know and having 4 boys would be fun! Or that I wouldn't even know what to do with a girl. If its someone I'm close enough with, they already know my deep desire for a girl! And those that don't know don't need to know lol

[Wanting-a-girl]

I get that too... O I bet you want a girl this time... Blah blah blah! And with ds2 being autistic I just simply say nope normal is all I ask for... Cause in reality that's the truth... I will not be any more excited during this pregnancy if it's a girl cause I think it's special to be having a new baby in general

[fish2012]

Some days the idea of having a girl scares me too lol

Ridiculous!

[Honeychild]

Urgh, people love to say this stuff, don't they! I usually say something along the lines of 'it's good either way' a girl would be nice, but then I'm used to boys, and we're already set up for them. No one knows about the swaying except hubby.

Hey can anyone see my ticker btw? I seem to have managed to botch it somehow and haven't been able to fix it yet. Or maybe it's to do with my newbie post count?

[4Giffins]

I guess my problem is i just havent come up with a come back to cover all my basis lol. I know not finding gender out wont change anything..only continue it until baby is born! Im just sick of ppl bothering me! LOL I think its rude when ppl say oh i bet its another girl! And it annoys me when someone says, I think your having a boy..cuz then I feel like they are setting me up to fail! LOL..Maybe I should just wear a sign that says dont speak to me!

[Northern_Shutterbug]

Thank you all!

I still can't believe it!

Good luck Thorz for your scan and good luck with your consultant Fish!!

[Wanting-a-girl]

Honey no ur ticker is not visable I think u have to use the HTML version instead

And yes the comments are rude... People don't think! Especially when they really have no idea what it's like