Ladies due in Sept/Oct/Nov 2012, gather here!

[Flava]

Pp- you know this is all what you think a girl would or should do. But it's so different in RL when that girls is there! What if she don't want to do any dance at all?My girls don't dance. Only DD1 did when she was little, that's it.
You know how many time I read all this dreams the ladies have who want's daughters and it just makes me smiley .
Like they will go shopping together and dress them up like dolls and have mother daughter talks and do nails and hair all the time and cook together ect ect.
Well it's not like that!
And there are the other posts i read they see this "poor" little girls with no dresses on or omg just a shirt and shorts and boy cloths! And they are not taken care of because their hair is just brushed and that's it or maybe they have "only" a ponytail and they don't do magic hair creations every morning!
Well I hate that some one would think I don't take care of my girl because they are is shirt most of the time and had a ponytail only or not even that. You know why because most girls do not want to do this dream stuff at all!
My girls don't really want to put on any dress only sometimes. I can make a pony tail for DD3 and 4 but not much for DD2 .They all hate to brush hair and stand there forever to make something nice out of it. And they hate bows lol. If I go shopping they want to stay home most of the time and I can only paint their nails sometimes.
For those talks they are to little I guess DD1 is 14 and we kinda talk sometimes but they want to talk 'important" stuff with friend lol. So you see you just never know how is that dream girl will turn out.
As for my dream boy I just dream he wouldn't be to wild jumping of furniture , fighting to much ect. Kinda that's it lol .i We would just stay with the shirt and shorts and I would love to have a boy with really short hair to wash and dry and brush! That would be awesome! Se I have a simple dream so why can't I have it? lol

[auroara78]

Flava, thanks for your post! It's great to hear "insider" info about having a daughter!

My mom and I never did the nail thing, we did shop a lot, and I used to love shopping until I had no money, so I stopped going out because it made me want to buy things we couldn't (since we had to spend our money on bills etc). I don't really like the puffy big dresses personally, but nothing is as refreshing and cute as cotton lil dress, esp. in spring or summer. When I was a kid, I refused to wear pants until I was in 7th grade. I wore a skirt or dress to school every day until then. So it's hard to tell sometimes how a child will behave.

Flava, don't worry my DS1 is well behaved most of the time, his worst thing is that he likes to play rough on "people" not furniture or things. He's obessed about puling off all the pillows and blankets off our bed and making a "fort" in the living room.

[Flava]

Im taking 50 B6 right now because I took it in the 2ww. Atomic told me to take it I just can't find the message when she told me how long and how to stop it! Guess I have to ask her again about this.
I will try the crackers but it didn't help with my other pregnancy's .I can try the chips too. what's a jolly rancher?
Funny I find myself craving potato Im making a baked potato right now lol. Normally I eat rice and pasta. But now that I think potato may help with m/s? because I had 1 2 days ago and after I eat it m/s was gone.
I try it with this potato when is done!
(im so buying chips today lol) FX it works!
My m/s is not so bad but it's so annoying and i want to cook and be there and play more with the girls.
Oh and afternoon Im so sleepy I can barely stay up! uggghhh

[Flava]

aurora-that little boy sound just right for me ! lol You have no idea how much I wish to finally not to do hair! Im so jealous of DH he go in the shower wash hair come out dry it with a towel and done .Not fair lol
But i make him dry all the girls hair sometimes Im so mean

Please keep up the m/s tips girls!

[atomic sagebrush]

You can take the B6 for as long as you want to - I took it thru the first tri because it was supposed to help with morning sickness (it didn't). Just make sure you gradually wean off by either cutting the pills in half, or spacing out the time between doses farther and farther before quitting cold turkey. It should take 3 weeks to wean off.

[purplepoet20]

Flava -

I understand the difference in the type of girl people end up with. For me and my sisters... I love boyish things only, sis1 liked hair and makeup (she does hair in Beverly Hills now), and sis2 liked nail polish/hair/makeup and boyish activies. One of the girls down the street does swimming and I know she doesn't brush her hair after but it is still nice looking with the wavy look. I like it when girls have their hair down but sometimes they may need it up, like for sports or even dance. I am not big on makeup, nails, hair, and dressing up but I would do those things for a girl if that is what she likes. My youngest sis was crazy about braids and dark blue nail polish, and I did her hair everyday before school and nails every weekend.

I am keeping all my boys clothing so they can be used by a girl as well. A lot of it would make great play clothes and the pants are gender nuetral. Most I got from a friend who only has 1 child a girl and she wore mostly boys stuff. I have dresses and girly clothing (most I wouldn't buy because they are to girly) but they were free so I grabbed everything. Shorts and shirts are big with us since we travel to NV and Phoenix a lot. My kids go around the house in underwear and t-shirts all year long, naked when potty training.

I believe in letting my kids decide some of there activities and if a girl wanted to dance I may end up letting her. I just really hate some of the dance moves that little little girls do. And the swimsuit like outfit. Parents video taping all these girls and who knows who is a perv. Maybe a class that teaches moves but doesn't have them preform.

I have never been the type of person who wants to dress like a daughter. I can't see myself in a tutu and leggings! I let my boys pick their clothing for the day when they are 2+ and I love some of the odd choices they make. DS1 likes to wear all blue but nothing match including socks and hat. I would let a girl do the same so she could have her own style.

We all shop as a family because DH loves Walmart, Target, Kohls, or the Mall on the weekends. If we buy something for the boys I will hold a few choices for them to pick from. DS1 like watching Mickey Mouse but doesn't like the clothing. I do pick things special for the holidays but only for family photos.

I cook with my boys and use that time to talk and joke around. I do hope to do this with all my kids no matter their gender. For as long as it last. My boys don't stay and help the entire time but only for a few seconds... using the blender, stirring, or just wanting to see in the oven.

I have only felt sorry for one little girl who used to live down the street. Her mother passed away and she was living with her dad. He was working 3 jobs to pay bills. The little girl had torn up clothing for school. So I went to local used clothing store and I bought some clothing. Mostly pants, shorts, shirts, sweaters, jacket, but New socks, underwear, and shoes. Her dad was very grateful for the help. He now shops at the same store so she can continue to have nice looking stuff.

[purplepoet20]

Jolly Rancher is a hard candy. You can find them in the candy section at the store. The grape and watermelon made me even more sick but the sour apple and cherry were great.

[Flava]

You can take the B6 for as long as you want to - I took it thru the first tri because it was supposed to help with morning sickness (it didn't). Just make sure you gradually wean off by either cutting the pills in half, or spacing out the time between doses farther and farther before quitting cold turkey. It should take 3 weeks to wean off.

thanks! I will start that then because it not helping me at all.

[Flava]

PP- that was so nice of you to help the dad out! We also go shop together but DD1 stay home most of the time now that she is bigger. So sometimes DD2 and 3 want to stay too.
I like nail polish and maybe that's the only girly think we do most of the time. lol my latest ones is dark blue that's what I use right now.It's a very nice blue.
I eat the baked potato and it's better now! Must be something with the potato huh? Just watch me now that i write this down it will not work anymore lol
Im going to try the candy too.

Anyone ever had the prego lolly? I never did so don't know if it works?

[purplepoet20]

Anyone ever had the prego lolly? I never did so don't know if it works?

I did with DS2 but I had to keep them in my mouth all the time. Is was expensive. But they did work really well for driving or shopping.