Yep, the cost of the harmony test is no joke. I'm in two minds about getting it done...it's not like I would have any decisions to make depending on the outcome. I'll take what i'm blessed with and be happy about it regardless!
The comments do drive you insane. I know half the time it's not meant maliciously but seriously I find it very insensitive. I just think it's my business how many children I have..not yours! And since I never burden my children on anyone I don't get why they feel the need to comment on how many I have...
I'm also very well aware that I haven't got a girl so why some people feel the need to state the obvious and then ask if that's why I haven't stopped yet is not very considerate and actually quite insensitive when you think about it.
Anyways we are blessed ladies, and these are exciting times...whether people want to be happy for us or not!
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February 10th, 2017, 09:50 AM #111Dreamer
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February 10th, 2017, 09:54 AM #112Dreamer
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I totally understand remaining in 'ignorant bliss'. I was just saying to my husband last night that I quite like the idea of just 'living the dream' of having a baby girl for a bit!
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February 10th, 2017, 10:34 AM #113Dream Newbie
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February 10th, 2017, 12:01 PM #114Dreamer
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I guess there are pros and cons either way. If I find out early on it means I face reality early on. I don't spend the next good few months constantly analysing every symptom, looking at every sign...even making up signs e.g. If the next baby I see is a girl then i'm having a girl, if the next car is blue i'm having a boy lol! I can do without that sort of madness this time around!
Then again, it's so nice to be surprised at delivery, and at that point you really couldn't care any less about what the gender is...you just want the baby out safe and sound with everything in working order....
I guess time will tell...although I'll most likely cave in before delivery and find out!*
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February 10th, 2017, 01:38 PM #115Big Dreamer
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I'm definitely finding out. I just want to know for sure so I can prepare for the family I'm really going to have. I think I've been living with the hope of a successful sway since June 2013 so I am ready to know one way or the other. Honestly, I'm excited to to have closure. It's for sure our last. I will be over the moon if it's my girl but I'm trying not to think about it, and instead just expect to hear boy again.
I had a friend do a successful sway and I was with her when she found out the gender so I have a very clear picture of the dream coming true moment.
Also, I don't want to share the news until I find out what we've having to hopefully head off some comments. I'm feeling very protective of this possible third boy already and don't want to hear any negativity.
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February 10th, 2017, 01:53 PM #116
It'll be a third boy for me too but I do have a small incling this is our girl maybe it's just desperation !
Like u I'm sick of the mind tricks too like if I hear someone with the name I want I think oooo it'sa Sign! Crazy isn't it !!
Anyway I was thinking who is really enjoying eating what they want and not exercising ?!! ME!!!!!! Xxx
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February 10th, 2017, 02:38 PM #117
After having 3 boys, my DH are not disillusioned- this is most likely our 4th boy! I think we are the most hopeful this time around because everything for both of us was 100% different than when we conceived our other children. I really couldn't have asked for a better sway. So for the first time, we are a tad bit hopeful that this is my DH's much longed for DD.
I hope and pray we all get what we hoped/tried for! Above all else, I hope we have perfectly healthy babies [emoji4]!
[emoji170][emoji1379]DS1, [emoji577]DS2, & [emoji602]DS3[emoji170]
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February 10th, 2017, 03:26 PM #118Big Dreamer
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Aww girls we're all in the same boat, like u xx I gave it my best shot and if it's not meant to be its not meant to be. I also see the name I have picked for a girl everywhere and I'm Like oh it's a sign!!! Or if the next baby I see is a girl I'll have a girl 😃 driving myself crazy, but yes I am enjoying eating everything and anything I like!!!! I so hope we all here are desired gender girls
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February 10th, 2017, 04:22 PM #119
Sounds quite promising then xx really wishing u lots of luck for a pink one this time !and yes Amelia I feel the same I've been binging on rubbish now I've got such a sore throats and s cold coming along
( I had exactly the same with my ds2 around this time)
Hoping it doesn't stick around !
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February 10th, 2017, 04:44 PM #120Big Dreamer
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I have a strong feeling I am carrying a boy. Which I'm starting to just accept and prepare for. [emoji170]
I did have 2 attempts in my fertile window, and only 48 hours apart. I think that's what making me lean that way.
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