TTC a BOY April Chit Chat Thread

[LolaInLove]

Bec, nothing like having to wait! Sorry, hun. I never tested mine after the 10wk m/c, but we waited 3 months to ttc again, so I bet it was gone by then. Well, obviously it was since I've had nothing but bfns since then. Are you going back on Clomid and all in a couple months? I'm good, just waiting for DH's appt with the urologist on the 20th and we'll see what our options are for the natural ttc for now. I am hoping he gives him some man Clomid and that helps the count. I'm a little worried what that will cost since he'd have to take 1 a day all month, and I remember mine was $30 for just 5 pills, but eh, I guess we'll cross that bridge after the appt.

Flava, I'm sorry you still have it.....have you gone to the doc? Not to be Little Miss Go-To-the-Doctor today, but maybe they could do an u/s and just give you some peace of mind too?

Feeling pg yet, Dloui?

Have fun on vaca, POP! Come back knocked up, please!

[dloui128]

I feel really bloated, someone told me that with every pregnancy you have you show faster, is that true? I feel like I already have a little pot belly.

I hope the urologist gives you good news Lola

Flava I hope the MS calms down for you, I really hope I don't get it

[Flava]

lola- I don't have a doc to go anyway Im with a birth center and midwife. They will send me on 2 u/s at 12 weeks and 18 or 20 Im not sure.
yeah still have damn m/s hating it...

Oh I see your DH going to the doc .So they can give him something like clomid? I did not know that. hopefully it will work!

[LolaInLove]

Dloui, that is so true. I felt like I looked pg about 10 minutes after I took the hpt last time around (m/c #2). Just go with it and let people give you seats on the bus and free cookies at the grocery store longer, kwim?

Thanks, I hope he does, too! I know my DH will be intimidated when he meets the guy because he is not much older than my DH and is pretty hot. LOL

[LolaInLove]

lola- I don't have a doc to go anyway Im with a birth center and midwife. They will send me on 2 u/s at 12 weeks and 18 or 20 Im not sure.
yeah still have damn m/s hating it...

Oh, that's right. I'd love to do the mw/birthcenter thing myself! Well, it's good you are still sick, I always think that is a sign of a good strong pregnancy. Otherwise, it totally sucks. Have you found anything that eases it up?

[Flava]

dloui-you just feel like you have a pot belly? That's good I do have a BIG one because of the damn diet
Im sure everyone is tired reading about how I hate to be fat but what can i do this is so not me. I feel like someone else!

[Flava]

Oh, that's right. I'd love to do the mw/birthcenter thing myself! Well, it's good you are still sick, I always think that is a sign of a good strong pregnancy. Otherwise, it totally sucks. Have you found anything that eases it up?

Ehh no and the midwife is telling me to use sea-band and stupid things like that. Nothing like this ever help me. Im sure she really don't have any idea about real m/s or she would give me some damn mads!
Anyway Im only going with the birth center because I don't have a choice! I switched to the last time so I don't have to have a c/s and same reason I go there again.
For me nothing is good about labor pain I loved the epidural with DD2 !

[LolaInLove]

Did you have both DD3 and 4 naturally then? I am scared of it, but want to try it some day. I'm scared of the pain when they come out, that ring of fire thing.

Not surprised your mw is giving you only natural stuff! The sea bands worked alright for me. I just had to take a nap everyday and eat little bits here and there and I ate a lot of ginger candies and such. I never took the drugs either, but should have with #1 because I lost 15lbs by 14wks and wanted to just be put out of my misery. My doc was trying to tell me then that I had to gain a pound a week or I'd go in the hospital, and I was like WHERE IS THE PHENERGREN, B!t&H? Your mw probably doesn't know what it's like, you are so right. Hope it eases up for you soon, though. And don't feel bad about whining about the pot belly, I am still 40lbs up and feel like a gross beluga whale.

[dloui128]

dloui-you just feel like you have a pot belly? That's good I do have a BIG one because of the damn diet
Im sure everyone is tired reading about how I hate to be fat but what can i do this is so not me. I feel like someone else!

Yeah its a pot belly now at 4 weeks, I hate to see how big it will get in another 4! Just think after the baby is born you can do hard core diet again and get back to your normal self, I'm sure you can do it

[Flava]

lola- I had #1 natural and never wanted more kids ....so DD2 came 6 years later with epidural that was great I just watched tv and waited.
DD3 was a c/s and of course in lovely US they wanted DD4 to be a c/s too for no reason at all just because I had one already.
So i went to have a home birth because after a c/s you can't have a birth in a birth center but you can have at home with them. (so stupid huh?)
Yeah it hurts but this was the first time I did not need a cut not even a tear on me and was my biggest baby!
No one is yelling at you counting in you ears or telling you to hurry up ect. so it's good.

I would take meds for the m/s but i don't have any!