Due Sept/Oct/Nov 2016

[lala22]

I have, but I'm pretty sure he realizes I can't actually follow through at this point. I have no income and I don't have a vehicle to hold all the kids. The best I can do is move out of our bedroom and be like a roommate right now. If I only had one kid and a job still I would have left until he could fix his part in the issues. He always acts shocked when I tell him something upsets me or makes me angry, like the thought never occurred to him.

Men!

[twointow83]

I have, but I'm pretty sure he realizes I can't actually follow through at this point. I have no income and I don't have a vehicle to hold all the kids. The best I can do is move out of our bedroom and be like a roommate right now. If I only had one kid and a job still I would have left until he could fix his part in the issues. He always acts shocked when I tell him something upsets me or makes me angry, like the thought never occurred to him.

(((Hugs)))

🙏 for a healthy 🌈 🚼 We're having a girl! 🎀👗
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[Bella29]

They really are thick sometime aren't they. Unless you spell it out in capitals they don't get it.


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[girliedreamz]

LoveRR, I'm so sorry!

I had two natural m/cs. My m/c at 7 weeks was just like a really heavy period. Super heavy for about a day, and I passed a lot of clotting, then lighter. The worst was really the emotional part. I think I cried for two days straight. So sad.

My second m/c was at 11 weeks, and it was a bit harder physcially though I guess I was more prepared emotionally for it that time. Not much actual pain of any kind, other than what I'd call regular menstrual cramping. But tons of gushing blood. So much so that I spent a couple of hours in the bathroom because I literally would soak the depends underpants the second I stood up. I got a bit lightheaded and spent most of the rest of the day in bed, but I got lucky in that I didn't need to go to the ER. Just laying down for a bit was enough. I found out I had a non-viable pregnancy at 9 weeks, and the two weeks of waiting was the worst. I still had all the icky pregnancy symptoms but knew I wasn't getting my baby. I did take some homeopathic remedies and lots of Vitamin C to help speed up the mc. And I took tons of cinnamon tea afterwards to lessen the bleeding, which helped some. I bleed for a good two weeks at least, pretty heavily at first.

SO sorry you're having to go through this. Hugs, and please feel free to ask anything. For me it was so scary not knowing what to expect.

[Quinn31]

LoveRR so very sorry to see your news. Lots of positive thoughts coming your way. Miscarriages are one thing I just can't understand why they happen. It's so unfair.


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[twointow83]

So, as I've said before, my anxiety is in high gear lately and it keeps getting higher (nightmares, panic, etc.). Anxiety is the name of the game when it comes to pregnancy for me but I couldn't understand why it's so extreme right now. It hit me this morning. Not only am I in the critical time frame of pregnancy (16-17 weeks) when we lost our first angel (I already knew this) BUT it's the same time of year that we learned we lost both him AND our DD(May 2nd for both)... if that's not enough I should be gearing up for baby right now. Our most recent loss would have been due any day now :'( No wonder I'm a freakin' wreck.

[purple]

I'm sorry you are feeling so anxious Two It is understandable after everything you have been through. Have you tried many coping techniques? I have suffered anxiety in the past and hypnotherapy helped relax me. Also if you are up to it, try to get out for some fresh air and go for a walk. Practicing breathing is something else that might also help. I hope you are feeling better soon.

[twointow83]

I'm sorry you are feeling so anxious Two It is understandable after everything you have been through. Have you tried many coping techniques? I have suffered anxiety in the past and hypnotherapy helped relax me. Also if you are up to it, try to get out for some fresh air and go for a walk. Practicing breathing is something else that might also help. I hope you are feeling better soon.

Can't go for a walk. My hip is bummed out due to loose ligaments. Mainly just using distraction. As long as I can stay busy I don't think. If I don't think then I don't stress. But a person can only be so busy so some problems do sneak through. Breathing never really worked well for me in the heat of things. I tend to end up hyperventilating, no matter how much I try to control my breathing. When not preg or TTC I take anxiety meds as needed... not so much of an option right now though. Night/evening seems to be when it's at it's worst so DH knows to watch for signs and distract me if necessary. He's pretty good at it thankfully. No matter how upset I am somehow he always finds a way to make me laugh and calm me. The nightmares are unavoidable though. Just hoping once I make it to my u/s at 18 weeks and see that baby is fine and we've passed the "critical zone", passed the due date, etc. (plus I should be feeling stronger movements by then. I still only feel her BIG movements rolls, kicks and only the strong ones... I might only feel her a handful of times a day or maybe not at all right now) that I will finally be able to leave the bulk of anxiety behind and move forward with this pregnancy and maybe actually even be able to enjoy it. Might be a pipe dream but it is all I have to cling to right now.

[Bella29]

Oh two. Please be kind to yourself and don't fight the anxiety. You have every right to be anxious. I try to deal with fears by noticing them when they come into my mind and saying to myself. "That's probably a fairly reasonable and normal fear, it's ok to feel like that" and then let the thought drift out of my head again. I don't try not to think about it, I just relax and accept myself the way I am and with my quirks and fears and know I am a normal woman, with normal feelings and that's ok. Hugs to you. I will be hoping with you for the next few weeks to pass quickly.


Two girls and one boy, due October 16

[Traci25]

I know how you feel. I'm in the same boat as you and I wish I had great advice for you. I was up all last night looking at ramzi pictures. And my 7 week ultrasound baby is facing to the rt which I'm guessing it means that's where the placenta is. I couldn't sleep. I'm so sad as well. I hate this feeling. I tried so hard but still nervous I dtd to close to O. I know they say it doesn't matter but I'm still a wreck. Know that your not alone! Hopefully talking about will
Ease the pain.