APRIL chit chat BOY swayers - All welcome

[onthepond]

AFY - any update yet for you? 9DPO today for me, BFN. Still have to test daily, though feeling like I must be out this month. It seems like most women get at least a very faint line with FRER at 9DPO, doesn't it?

Bummed OUT. I seriously hate the heartache. I would be over 25 weeks pregnant now had I not lost our baby in MC. That and then NOT getting pregnant after is really, truly heartbreaking.

[Leebug]

Hi OTP! I'm new.I'm sorry for your loss.Don't lose hope! I don't get bfp with FRER until 11 DPO.Any of you try mixing preseed with EW for your attempt?

[afy]

AFY - any update yet for you? 9DPO today for me, BFN. Still have to test daily, though feeling like I must be out this month. It seems like most women get at least a very faint line with FRER at 9DPO, doesn't it?

Bummed OUT. I seriously hate the heartache. I would be over 25 weeks pregnant now had I not lost our baby in MC. That and then NOT getting pregnant after is really, truly heartbreaking.

Hey onthepond.. dont give up yet and there will definitely come a time when we finally catch that egg I always think its when we least expect it..

Im 9DPO too and apart from queasiness then to extreme queasiness on and off all day, I dont ever get that much of a queasy feeling but Im not thinking of it as being anythin yet not until I see it in black and white lol
I dont wana test but now feeling slightly tempted whens the earliest we can test? and which HPT did you use? Have you got any early preg symptoms or anything that might give you a slight inkling?

[Cinss]

Hang in there OTP, your not out yet, got my fingers crossed for you and Afy and Zebannie!

Leebug, i wouldn't recommend the EW with preseed, EW can give you infections.

[afy]

Thanks cinns!! I am keeping myself as calm as neutral and as prepared for anything as possible.. even if it is a BFN upwards and onwards..
Do you know what prego test the ladies use? I know alot of them say to wait till after expected period. I seen one that says detects the pregnancy hormone upto 4/5days before your expected period.. According to my calculations I'm due next sat/sun.. But then I think No I will wait for AF to arrive.

[Cinss]

i had a bunch of internet cheapies and would test from 10dpo, i never got a + with them though (because i wasn't preggers every time) I had a 3 pack of FRER to use as confirmation if i got a + on a cheap test, Most ladies will get a + on both at the same time so just get the cheapies if money is of concern, you dont want to go through too many FRERs because they are expensive.

[afy]

I was thinking the same not to go through too many just test once and if not wait for AF.. Sorry what's FRER?

[Cinss]

First Response Early Result First Response™ - Early Result Pregnancy Test

[onthepond]

UUG. 10DPO - BFN and a temp drop again this morning. I am sure I am out this month. I don't get it and it is making me a little nervous. BOTH of the other times I was pregnant I got preg on the first try. And since my D&C (BTW thought you were MORE fertile after a MC) we have had no luck yet. Just don't get it. Thank you all for the support.

This is a pretty crummy way to feel. This is honestly consuming me now. I just want to be pregnant again. We always wanted our kiddos close in age and with each passing month I stress more and more about that. Sigh. I hope you ladies are having better luck and are feeling better than I am! Please share how you are doing!

[KikiCal]

I feel your pain about wanting them close in age. Before my mc they would have been less than 2 years. Then we had to take a break because I work in a school and will be looking for a new job this summer so I couldn't be visibly pregnant. Now the closest they will be is 2.5 years if I can get pregnant soon. This is my third month back trying and no luck the first 2 months. Sometimes I get angry and think how unfair it is because I would be delivering in June. I hope we don't have to wait much longer!! I'm trying to focus my attention on my dd to take my mind off ttc and remember that she is growing so fast!!