April 2WW

[mydream]

Why am I feeling down today-- maybe its because I am at work and surrounded by pregnant women...

[fivebabies]

I hate that! So sorry Hun.

[dloui128]

Why am I feeling down today-- maybe its because I am at work and surrounded by pregnant women...

I felt the exact same way the month I got my BFP!!
A couple days before I tested two girls at work announced their pregnancy I was so down in the dumps and then 2 days later bam I got my BFP.
I am hoping this is the case for you, you are testing thursday right? that in a couple days you will see your BFP

[riss177]

Hi ladies! This was our first month TTC and we DTD last Thursday PM. I will take a pregnancy test on Sunday.

I am panicking a bit because I didn't follow my sway exactly how I planned to.

I had taken Zyrtek 23 hours prior to our set time to BD. I was originally going to take a Benadryl 1 hour prior to BD, but then I saw a glob of EWCM and panicked. So I then took 1/4 Zyrtek 4 hours prior to BD. When it was an hour before time to BD I checked for CM to see if I should take Benadryl. It was very sticky/dry-like so I didn't take it.

The other part of my sway that I didn't follow as planned was to jump and dump. I laid there for one minute and then got up. (I'm about to say something gross and maybe TMI)... I got up and immediately semen came pouring all down my legs and plopped on the floor. I made it to the bathroom and a lot more fell into the toilet. I sat there for a minute or two trying to clean myself up. I didn't pee or do kegals. Then I panicked that too much semen came out so I ran to lay back down. I did that for a few minutes and panicked that I was going to get pregnant with a boy. I had a mental battle with myself over the next hour and a half that involved a ton of laying down and standing up.... and thinking oh my I'm not going to get pregnant or oh my gah it's going to be a boy! LOL! I was a total nut!

I keep going back and forth feeling like I messed up my strict sway. When we do get pregnant I want to feel like I did eveything I could to ttc a girl. Don't get me wrong, I will love another son just as much. But, I really want this second child to be a girl so that our third and last child's gender could be a surprise.

Anyway, I'm done blabbing. I wish there was a chill pill I could take =0)

[Irishmom]

Best of luck irishmom and peb when will you test?

Thank you Lassie. I will hold out until the 17th just to be sure. Sorry this month is out for you.Best of luck next month.xx

Best of luck Riss.My sway did'nt go as planned either but i'm not going to worry for now.Let's just focus on getting our BFP first. Everything will work out just fine.

[Irishmom]

Why am I feeling down today-- maybe its because I am at work and surrounded by pregnant women...

Ah ((hugs)) to you. I hope tomorrow is a brighter day for you.xx

[mydream]

I felt the exact same way the month I got my BFP!!
A couple days before I tested two girls at work announced their pregnancy I was so down in the dumps and then 2 days later bam I got my BFP.
I am hoping this is the case for you, you are testing thursday right? that in a couple days you will see your BFP

Ugh I could cry right now as now someone brought in their 4 month old daughter To work to show everyone...
Hoping to find the courage to test Thurs night

[ILindGurl]

hang in their mydream....I know it's so hard especially when we see little girls or people announce their pregnancies!

[Lassie1982]

irishmom - with a positive attitude like that you are half way there already

Mydream - i completely understand you hun *hugs* Hang in there hun and stay positive that you're turn will be coming soon.

rissi - here is a virtual chill pill *chill pill* ! Seriously, try not to stress, its pointless, whats done is done and whats meant to be will be, you will drive yourself mental micro analysing everything (i know - trust me - i do it too!)

and to all still waiting!!!

[riss177]

Lassie - Thanks! I over-analyze most things and it drives both dh and I nuts, lol! I am much more calm about it today =0) Just trying to keep busy until I can take my pregnancy test.

irishmom - I agree with Lassie... you have a wonderful positive attitude and reading your posts helps me to relax a bit! I hope you get your BFP!

Fingers crossed for all of us! I'm so glad to have this forum and the 2ww gathering place.