TTC boy this summer... sway buddies?

[atomic sagebrush]

It's okay, thank you anyway for looking into it atomic. Idk why that happens, when I came on the forum everything was fine at first and I very rarely had a missing post but now, I always get that moderation message even on my own thread. It's frustrating because I can't support the girls here or ask a question of my own and I'm so close TTC now I was starting to panick all on my own

I think we need to try having you log out and log back in again and also possibly turning your internet router off and on (just turn it off for a minute or so then turn it on and allow it to reboot)

I had approved quite a few of your posts. That is why I had already noticed "why are Sora's posts always needing moderation" but I thought maybe I was imagining it and hadn't contacted tech support till yesterday. I don't know why this glitch occurs, it does occasionally happen from time to time but it's never happened to one person again and again like this. So I do have the message in, but you may want to try the other things in case that helps.

So sorry for inconvenience.

[atomic sagebrush]

Sorry for asking so many questions girls. When we sway blue I think it's suggested husband releases every 2-4 days. So can we have sex after AF untill fertile period protected and then stop using protection during fertile period?

I am planning on having unprotected sex just 2 days before, day before and on the day of O.

Also constant smiley on CB is a positive surge? Should I also wait until I get dark like on internet cheapies?

Please let me know if I am thinking right to sway blue.

Hey, just to let everyone know, I can't keep up with these support threads where lots of people are posting lots of questions in them. If you want me to respond when you have questions like this PLEASE start a thread to ask them because otherwise I won't be able to reply to you most of the time.

Yes if you believe in Shettles you can have protected sex with a non-spermicide condom or pullout from AF-fertile period.

BUT some evidence indicates that the hormones in semen may make you more fertile and blue friendly (which is how most of us with all boys got our boys - we BD unprotected in our nonfertile times of the month and then when we were fertile, had many attempts around ovulation) and so some blue swayers prefer to have unprotected sex when not fertile as well. It's totally up to you and what you feel comfortable with - if you're worried about timing, you would use protection, if you are a believer in more sex = more boys idea, you could BD unprotected when not fertile. OR you could split the difference and BD with protection when you're sure you're not fertile, then switch to protection to avoid any O-5 thru O-3 attempts if you wish, then hit it with your planned attempts O-2, O-1, and O Day.

Yes the solid smiley is surge. NO you don't wait till u get a dark positive, you should go off first positive of any brand and start having attempts at that point in time, since in many months you won't ever get a dark positive.

[tkelly621]

Thankyou!! I got my positive around 930 Sunday night . I didn't do cough syrup, I drank green tea which helped a lot! I was surprised actually!

[tkelly621]

I'm also doing the pineapple core . It's so gross though. The texture is bleh. If I don't get pregnant this month,, I will order regular bromelein tabs

[Blue-dream]

How many green tea you drank per day? Also as that interferes with folic acid absorption how much folic acid you took? Are BD'ing with no protection every other day?

Oh talk about pineapples!! I just ate some yesterday and with my teeth sensitivity felt disgusting

[Blue-dream]

Thank you so much for the reply atomic. I have started BDing without protection now. As per FF I ovulate next week on Saturday. So will not BD 2 days before O and then give 3 attempts.

[Bromedha]

Thankyou!! I got my positive around 930 Sunday night . I didn't do cough syrup, I drank green tea which helped a lot! I was surprised actually!

Hi ... How much green tea helped you ?...I always get very less...

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[aira22]

That's really a good sign aira22. I am glad you could control yourself without testing. When are you planning to do the test?

I think when I'm 2 or 3 days past AF was due. That's in 2 or 3 days. I'm really thinking it could be

Three days of attempts... I am exhausted!! Haha .... a little strange but hVe any of you tested hubbys sperm ph? I tested what I wiped off me afterwards and it was in the 9 territory.. green . I thinks that's good isn't it? Sorry tmi. Ttc is gross ��������

haha, yeah ttc IS gross lol I didn't test DH sperm but I think it is always alkaline...green is good.

Thankyou!! I got my positive around 930 Sunday night . I didn't do cough syrup, I drank green tea which helped a lot! I was surprised actually!

I also drank green tea, 2 cups a day and I had the feeling it dried my CM up. I drank it 3 months or so and around the first ovulation it "worked" but then I felt like I got less and less EWCM every month...don't know if there is a relation though. If this isn't a BFP, I'm going to try without it next time. Anyways I stopped it already in the TWW. I hope it didn't hurt my sway because this cycle there was hardly any EWCM

[tkelly621]

I was putting two bags in hot tea 2x a day.

[tkelly621]

I'm taking over 2000mg of folate