Ladies due in Sept/Oct/Nov 2012, gather here!

[sallygal]

Hi! Just checking in to say we found out we are having a healthy boy number 3. I was obviously disappointed however this little man was meant to be so will love him just as much. My sway was nowhere Perfect but maybe if it was it still would have been a boy. I'm not going to dwell on that though and although sad ill never have a girl I'll embrace having three boys and I'm not going to keep having babies to get a girl. So good to know what he is now as was certain he was s boy after twelve week scan! I think this is a fantastic forum though for people who are trying to swing the odds. Good luck to everyone and I know we will all accept what is meant for us x

[pinkin2011]

Sallygal congrats on a healthy boy! And yes you are right , these babies are meant to be, whichever gender they are!

[Butterfly Spirit]

Just had to add my belief on dreams since you are all talking about them on this thread.
I agree with some dreams, that they are messages.

My husband had a dream about 3-6 years before he met me. (can't remember the exact yr) He was under his mom's carport working on his car and there were all these "rare spiders" scattering about and it was raining. Then he spotted a baby girl in a carseat and he asked her where her mother was, and she said "10 years (something that is proof she was referring to me)" and he said "what!?" and asked again and she kept saying it over and over. It gives me chills to type it because I FEEL it's true as what that baby said is something that without a doubt meant I was her mom. And it is just over 10 years..now since that event that little girl mentioned. Meaning.. this event began years before his dream but the time passed to just make it just over 10 yrs this yr. Crazy huh?

When we conceived DS#1 we thought it was a girl.. same with DS#2.. now we're at our last child, I REALLY think it's Her. When I got my BFP I had a strong feeling it was a girl, so I guess we'll see!

Also my mother-in-law has dreamed about every wife in my husband's family, when they get pregnant or just before they get pregnant and she is told the gender and hasn't been wrong once yet..She said about a month ago, I know you guys will have your girl I don't know when.. but I had a dream in 2010 that she was talking on the phone and had beautiful long blonde hair)

In October right before Halloween my mom-in-law and sis-in-law had the EXACT same dream the same EXACT night that my hubby and I would be pregnant soon with baby #3. And my other sis-in-law whom I was close to, disclosed to me that she dreamed that same night too, pretty much right before they told her about their dreams. None of them were shown the gender though.

His family members also have premonitional dreams regulary.. My mom-in-law's sister saw a home robbery in the family before it happened and exactly how it would take place.. and it ended up happening. -Luckily they were not home!

Ooooo Chills!

[Mochagirl]

Congrats on a healthy baby, pinkin. I looked at your pics but i'm so bad at this I don't trust myself to guess.

Sallygal - congrats on a healthy baby boy. I swayed with my ds3 and had a rough time for a few days after I found out he was a boy. After I named him and started buying things for him I got excited to meet him. Now, of course, I couldn't live without him. He looks like me and has become my little buddy. I just know your little guy is going to be a wonderful addition to your family .

[PeonyPrincess]

Sallygal, thanks for letting us know about your baby boy, and congratulations! Like you, this will be my last baby so I too plan to enjoy them and remind myself they were meant to be.

[purplepoet20]

Flava –
Trust DD3… she is more in touch with your soul then you may think. If she says you are having a boy then it is because she knows! My DS1 had a dream about us having a baby when I was only about 7wks along. We had to tell the family because he kept telling everyone that we were having a baby girl. I cried a lot at first but now I just hope he is right because he says “he wants a sister so he make her a doll at school”. His friends that go to school make little cloth dolls in 1st grade, when the baby would be about 1yo.

[purplepoet20]

Mocha –
I hate comments like that but you should also consider maybe that the lady felt horrible about a 4th boy. Maybe she was jealous, maybe she went home and cried all night, or maybe she wanted to break your heart so she would feel better. Some of my friends know about my swaying but they are always nice about it. 1 finds out in 2 days what she is having and another will be trying in a few years. It’s so hard wanting a gender and not getting it but then you have to hear or see friends who got what they wanted is harder!
… And I love the clothing. The bright colors would tell the world it’s a girl. I have one just like the blue w/flowers in a size 9mths. I love jumpers they are so sweet and cute.

[purplepoet20]

Auroara – I have a very boyish carseat to, green with blue. But I bought a pattern to make a new cover for it, but I think I may just cover some of the trim with girly colors. I have some fabric that would be nice for adding trim, ruffles, and belt covers. My carseat is good for another year so I have to do something with it.

[purplepoet20]

Wow time has gone by fast, I am 15wks. Going crazy waiting for the gender scan. I keep thinking that I don't want to know but then a minute later I am dying to know.

[NavyWifey06]

I aint got much hope anymore. All old wives tales said this baby was a boy now im really thinking my angel baby was the boy its been saying im having because i went twice for an early gender scan they first time she thought she saw a penis but then said i might be wrong i now think i see 3 lines that was one scan then 3 days later another tech saw me to tell us the gender and she keep saying its a girl 3 lines mean girl parts and stuff like that. I go at 0645 for my 19 week BIG ultrasound as my hospital calls it i would love for rgew tech before to be wrong but im really doubting it now. My hubby says he is fine with it but i feel like such a failure and like it was my fault for loosing the baby a month before this one plus his family and mine aren't gonna make this easy. My mom hates the name we picked she says it dont go together. If its a girl for sure her name is Alexandera Josephine after both of our grandfathers if its a boy we picked Alexavier Joseph. His brother is gonna make fun of us and i will be the one who has to hear it since my hubby will be on the west coast and im moving back home for a little while not only that my whole family says we need to stop having kids and i will never get another boy and my son will be gay since he has so many sisters and just rude things like that and my mom really hurt me besides the name thing she said my sister will be blessed with all the boys she already has a daughter and blames her on me since she was 15 when she got preg and i has complications with my 2nd pregnancy so my mom came to see our preemie in the hospital. I really dont wanna go back and deal with the drama but i will need some help.