JUNE/JULY/AUGUST 2014 DUE DATE CLUB

[Leebug]

My dh freaked out when I told him-he wasn't happy at all.he said I forced him into another child & didn't even know if he wanted the baby.he agreed to try for 3 months but he said he only did that because he was "playing the odds" that it wouldn't happen.I'm 35 & he will be 38 in Dec. Ive been so sad & disappointed.he really is a good man.he has been super stressed @ work & we live with his parents right now because we just sold our house(he hates it here)so I'm trying to be understanding.

[icesfire]

leebug I so so sorry. Man can be suck jock some times. hope he get over it soon.

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[Pumpkin2011]

Leebug I am so sorry your DH is giving you a hard time. Give him some time and he will be happy. I bet he is just too stressed to be happy right now and hasn't really realized your a pregnant. I am praying this little one is a boy since every man wants a son.

[GT77]

Leebug-
My husband lost a huge account and when he first found out I was pregnant he freaked out!! Granted, we were trying he just didn't think it would happen so fast. He then worried about just paying for two and at first it was like oh my god, but he has settled down and after speaking to his parents and his sister he is ok now. I totally understand, I am 36 and he is 40, and ii think they just don't realize when you are trying you get pregnant fast! LOL He will calm down and I am telling you I got yelled at too with no excitement on his end when he first found out. I understand, but he will come around!

does anyone know if your boobs stop hurting after 11 weeks, if you can still have a girl? I have read a lot of stories online from the moms boobs hurting or not hurting with girls, but I can't seem to find the boobs hurting and stopping at 10 weeks 1/2. I just want to know if any of you have any idea?

[atomic sagebrush]

GT, GT, GT, you know I love ya but you gotta quit doing this to yourself. Take a step back for a minute and ask yourself if it even makes one iota of sense that with a girl pregnancy your boobs miraculously will stop hurting at 10 1/2 weeks. You can't tell gender from symptoms to begin with and you certainly can't tell from something so oddly specific like that.

Boy babies are barely making testosterone at the stage of gestation you're at. T production doesn't even peak until 17 weeks gestation, long after most of the early pg symptoms have already gone away - it is not the differences between boys and girls causing pregnancy symptoms.

[aidansmum]

Hey ladies, well now that I'm all caught up, I was out with the worst head cold of my life from saturday through today, finally feeling better today.

Had my first appt yesterday and dr did an ultrasound, I was 4 weeks and 5 days, he didn't find ANYTHING. Not a sac, nothing. I left devastated, scared and confused. What does this mean. I went and had bloodwork done today and should get the results back tomorrow and I have my next u/s Tuesday....I'll take any prayers I can get...thanks <3

mis2ninos, thought this would interest you. This website doesn't even have ultrasounds before 5w2d cause you're not supposed to see anything before then anyway. Keep us posted, thinking of you.

http://www.advancedfertility.com/ultraso1.htm

[icesfire]

gt77 My boobs heart with ever prencery stop at about 12 weeks. I been preganct with both boys and girls. The only prencert I have not had this problem us this one. Mmmmm doces that mean I having a it? My sine with this on have been so diffinted.

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[aidansmum]

This is also interesting, early HCG levels. Early Pregnancy HCG Levels and Ultrasound Pictures

You can tell I've been spending some time researching

I'm having another blood work on monday and we'll see what happens.

GT77, according to what I've read your hcg means you could be having twins

[aidansmum]

My dh freaked out when I told him-he wasn't happy at all.he said I forced him into another child & didn't even know if he wanted the baby.he agreed to try for 3 months but he said he only did that because he was "playing the odds" that it wouldn't happen.I'm 35 & he will be 38 in Dec. Ive been so sad & disappointed.he really is a good man.he has been super stressed @ work & we live with his parents right now because we just sold our house(he hates it here)so I'm trying to be understanding.

That's so unfair Leebug! It must be hard on you. My DH was a bit weird about it at first but he seems to have accepted it ok, even though I feel he's not as involved as he was when I fell pregnant with my little boy. I feel like this is my little project, he even calls himself 'just the sperm donor', in a joking manner, but it still hurts a bit.

[aidansmum]

does anyone know if your boobs stop hurting after 11 weeks, if you can still have a girl? I have read a lot of stories online from the moms boobs hurting or not hurting with girls, but I can't seem to find the boobs hurting and stopping at 10 weeks 1/2. I just want to know if any of you have any idea?

I have no idea either, but I don't put any faith in these old wives tales, there is no pattern for anything, just personal experiences. And in the end, whatever will be, will be, no matter how much sweat, blood and tears we put into it.