November Chit Chat

**CapricornAquarius** · November 14th, 2011, 04:08 PM

Mocha i really hope everything will be ok

**Mochagirl** · November 14th, 2011, 04:13 PM

Thanks, ladies. The bleeding has almost stopped now - just slight spotting when I wipe. I wonder if the clots this morning were from me overexerting myself hauling groceries, etc.? I'm trying to keep a realistic balance of hope and realism so I won't be floored if I hear bad news tomorrow morning.

**begonia** · November 14th, 2011, 05:51 PM

Mocha FX the spotting goes away never to return. I really hope all is well!

**Glittergirl** · November 14th, 2011, 06:54 PM

Mocha--I just got on and I saw your posts.

So sorry you're going through this. the over exerting can definitely cause the bleeding.

Fingers Crossed that everything will be fine at your scan tomorrow!

**princesssarah34** · November 14th, 2011, 09:23 PM

Mocha I am praying for you that tomorrow bring goodnews!!

So I am sitting here reading all the lovely posts and I keep getting a weird feeling down in my lower tummy. It is very faint but it almost feeling like tiny tiny bubbles popping or a tiny thump feeling....it doesn't happen very often. Now the weird part is everytime I feel this sensation it makes me a wee bit nauseous. With all of my pg's when the boys would move it would make me so nauseous......so I am sitting hear wondering if that is what I am really feeling?? I have always felt my boys early on (except Evan) but I always felt them by 16 weeks....I will be 15 in just a few days.....or f you go by the measurement of the baby at 12 weeks...baby measured 12 weeks 4days....I will almost be 16 weeks.

**Mochagirl** · November 15th, 2011, 08:35 AM

Hi ladies. I'm fairly positive my baby's gone. I was up all night with strong contraction-like pains and bled extremely heavily the whole time, with many many fist-sized clots. My midwife said I might as well just cancel my u/s, but I think I need the closure of seeing that there's nothing in there anymore. I'm feeling numb about the whole thing right now. This is hard after nearly 3 months of pregnancy and being so close to the 12 week point. I really never even imagined I was still at risk. The midwife thinks the baby probably died long ago and is just being expelled now. I guess that might explain why I had no pregnancy symptoms.

**Flava** · November 15th, 2011, 09:05 AM

OMG Mocha I just read this Im so very sorry for you .I cry now so sad...I think your midwife is right the baby was gone days ago...

I know exactly how you feel I lost 1 baby at 15 weeks! (it don't help that on the top of that Im thinking it was a boy)
Who would think you loose a baby at 15 weeks right?I was screaming in he hospital I want my baby back...
You are not alone we are all here for you and we have a pregnancy loss forum...
I hope you recover soon and you can try again. I't is hard to think of that now...
Take your time...

**begonia** · November 15th, 2011, 09:08 AM

Oh Mocha, hun, I got on this am specifically to check on you. I didn't expect this; I too was thinking you were in the clear. I am so sorry this is happening. Big hugs to you love.

**nuthinbutpink** · November 15th, 2011, 09:49 AM

I'm so sorry, Mocha.

**Mochagirl** · November 15th, 2011, 10:16 AM

I just had my u/s - the baby is definitely gone. The sacs still there, though - praying it gets expelled naturally so I won't need a d&c.

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