Ladies due in Sept/Oct/Nov 2012, gather here!

[pinkin2011]

The dr gave me the shot yesterday, It is actually just coming into winter so I am glad I had it

[Hobbermittens]

So much to catch up on! sorry, I only have time to read the last few things.

I had the flu shot during 2 pregnancies. I get the shot every year, but it only happened to be when I was pregnant a couple times. This time, I got the shot in Oct. and got pregnant in January. I had the swine flu when I was pregnant with DD2 and it was AWFUL. I felt like I had been run over by a truck. Seriously. They gave me tamiflu, which helped a lot!

[pinkin2011]

This will sound bad but I am already thinking about wanting to try again for another baby... I mean I want this baby dont get me wrong but I feel its a boy and I am already thinking of trying again.. I dont know what i would of done different. I am a mess today! I just feel like I will never get a girl .. I am having a boy now why would I get a girl next time? I am even looking at woman down the street today that have daughters and think gee how did they concieve them.. Whats it even like to have a girl inside of your tummy.. It will never happen for me. I am sorry to be a downer but I am really just so upset right now.

[TTC5]

Don't be sorry pinkin, most of us have all been in this situation before too big hugs xxx

[rainbowflower]

This will sound bad but I am already thinking about wanting to try again for another baby... I mean I want this baby dont get me wrong but I feel its a boy and I am already thinking of trying again.. I dont know what i would of done different. I am a mess today! I just feel like I will never get a girl .. I am having a boy now why would I get a girl next time? I am even looking at woman down the street today that have daughters and think gee how did they concieve them.. Whats it even like to have a girl inside of your tummy.. It will never happen for me. I am sorry to be a downer but I am really just so upset right now.

I can't imagine ever being pregnant with a girl either

TBH if this one is a boy for me I'll be most upset about having to sway again... and worried that I'll "waste" this one's first few months/end of pregnancy thinking about swaying again/planning for the next and with more uncertainty about if I'll ever get a girl

[pinkin2011]

its a horrible feeling isnt it? I have no hope left after my scan yesterday.. I wish I didnt even get the scan. Its done its another boy but I would of been better not knowing anything until birth because TBH I had a gut feeling it was a girl.. I am crushed

[PeonyPrincess]

You just may well have a little girl in there yet Pinkin. It is not a done deal as far as knowing what they are. However, I too look at women with girls and wonder why they had girls. They look very normal to me! One of my SIL has 3 of them. She is a bit weird though-lol.
I know it won't feel like much consolation when you are feeling down, but at least you and DH think you could have a third if or when the time comes. This is my last baby so I am determined to enjoy (almost) every minute!

[TTC5]

I just don't think I could be so lucky to finally get what I want..

[pinkin2011]

Peony, Its so nice not knowing as in before your 12 week scan! I wish I could go back to before yesterday I didnt know any different.
TTC5 I understand what you mean that is how I feel .. But to make you feel better I really think your having a boy and I am not just saying that !!
A 3rd was not my plan I am struggling a bit with depression atm due to my family ( my mother) and to have this baby was hard for me but knowing this is most prob a boy I am confused

[pinkin2011]

Peony I really dont think I have hope now for it being a girl, I have had ALOT of blue votes..