Sept 2WW

[ImmiNAddi]

Didn't use any lube. My fertility Dr has said from my ultrasound this morning plus my blood test yesterday that I am ovulating this afternoon (she even said that a BD tonight may be too late, it needed to be at lunchtime it as soon as hubby gets in the door - which will not happen)
Yes, my BFP from June was an attempt at day before ovulation. I know if I Bd tonight I WILL get pregs, but I'm worried it will be a boy just like my June BFP....

[ImmiNAddi]

Here is my chart....

Sept Chart 1.jpg

[Pbn3]

After reeeaaally thinking about being in your shoes and IF this is your last baby (which mine would be) I'd leave it with the attempt already done. At least if not successful this cycle you can change things up next cycle (as in no attempts until closer to o or an extra attempt and I'm assuming here you'll be monitored?) and maybe you wont have the twin possibility to worry about etc etc. I really dont know that I would risk an extra attempt this cycle. Again I'm sorry you're in this position I can only advise what I would do in your shoes.....

[ImmiNAddi]

After reeeaaally thinking about being in your shoes and IF this is your last baby (which mine would be) I'd leave it with the attempt already done. At least if not successful this cycle you can change things up next cycle (as in no attempts until closer to o or an extra attempt and I'm assuming here you'll be monitored?) and maybe you wont have the twin possibility to worry about etc etc. I really dont know that I would risk an extra attempt this cycle. Again I'm sorry you're in this position I can only advise what I would do in your shoes.....

I don't think I would take clomid next cycle - too much running around with blood tests every few days etc... I am only taking it for swaying...
Yes, this would be my absolute last baby. I have not tried a cut off like this with any of my boys, I always BD very close to ovulation - so maybe this will be my chance to try something new....?
It's a shame that it will not get to take advantage of the miscarriage (the only good part about it - that it gave me the chance at a stronger pink sway and another chance at getting my little girl too I guess xox)

I am going to be thinking about this until I fall asleep tonight I can tell! Lol!

[Pbn3]

I bet you will be! I guess you can only wait till morning to make sure there's a temp spike and go from there?

[netti02]

Ughhh sorry to be a downer on the thread but DHs cousin just found out shes having a girl. Shes due in April im sure she would have only just had a 12 week scan?

Just wanted to ask a question in relation to O. I see some of you ladies have had scans and found a few eggs 2-3. So is it possible to naturally have triplets/quads at least? Not that im hoping lol i just thought the Ovary released one egg. And triplets and beyond was ivf....

Mum to 4 Boys awaiting her Princess

[Pbn3]

hugs netti it really does raise the gd head when someone you know is getting it it's absolutely possible to have twins whether its in the family or not and apparently the risk (depending how you view having twins ) can increase as you get older (but can also be harder to conceive) Triplets and beyond has happened naturally as far as I know but the odds are waaayyy against and also very rare

[netti02]

Thanks pbn. Yeh it really does. Apart from you lovely ladies and my dh (who is supportive but i hate talking to him about it as he tried to blame himself) i don't really have anyone else to talk to. Its sad in a way im abit like a clam though i just like to protect myself but anyway thanks for listening xx

Mum to 4 Boys awaiting her Princess

[Pbn3]

awww Netti anytime! That's what we are here for, we all understand, we all want the same thing. I feel like everytime I go shopping I see little baby girls everywhere or 2 boys 1 girl families and it hits me everytime. Of course in reality its not like that, there's plenty of same and mixed gender families, I think we sometime choose to see what we want to see lol iykwim. Oh and what a lovely dh you have

[netti02]

Thanks. I know. I definitely zero in on the pidgeon pairs or the families that have 2 or 3 boys and theres the girl. I definitely see what i want to see LOL 😂😂😉😉

Mum to 4 Boys awaiting her Princess