HELP- already 2nd guessing

[atomic sagebrush]

My dream, I really am not understanding what your question is?? There IS no blue zone!!

The only point of confusion I can see is: the problem I was describing with people who thought that there was something magic about BD 7 days, and so they started BD 5 days before O and went thru O+1. Well you can get PREGNANT from BD on O-5 and O-4, so if you haven't had 7-10 days of FR BEFORE the earliest point you can get pg, then that's not FR.

You guys DID that, so you're covered.

[atomic sagebrush]

I had a girl, i have long cycles so we BD 16 days with maybe a one or 2 day break.

This is also how NBP got all three of her girls.

[atomic sagebrush]

I did but I also got in several attempts..this is the part that worries me-
even though she says it right there in the post...I am still ?'ing it?
ugh..gotta let it go!

That's FINE to get in more than 1 attempt in your fertile window with FR!! Lots of people need to do that in order to get pregnant at all.

[atomic sagebrush]

Reminder, of all the things that potentially sway, I think this is the absolutely most minor thing of all and yet it's the thing people seem to put the most stress and thought into. Please don't worry about the frequency patterns - they just can't sway that much!!

[mydream]

Thank you atomic. I guess I was just worried I had too much sperm up there awaiting the egg with so many attempts and that would sway boy but I guess I am wrong since we did 10 days of FR!!!

[atomic sagebrush]

there can be too much sperm up there with ONE attempt (or as I like to call him, DS 1) and then not enough with 20 attempts, as people whose husbands have low sperm count, know only too well.