Another boy for me

[Yuzu]

You know, I wasn't crying, but after reading over your wonderful posts I'm all sniffly! You ladies are so awesome. Thank you for your support; you know just what to say.

[auroara78]

Yuzu, my 2nd sister has 4 boys and always dreamed of having a girl. Her husband had the snip done, so unfortuantely, the bio chance is gone. However, she is considering one day to adopt a girl (not a baby, too expensive and hard to get), but an actual 3-4-5 year old girl that really needs a home and love and raise her on her own. I love the idea, esp. since a coworker who cannot concieve just adopted brothers (5 and 7 years old) and are giving them a chance at a loving wonderful home. I think adoption (esp. of slightly older children, who are not "babies" anymore) can be a gorgeous gift, and a beautiful way to unite desire with someone who really needs love.

I know it's not the same as the bio child you logged for, but maybe in 1-2 years, you can consider the idea of taking in a beautiful 3 year old girl and giving her four older brothers (two closer in her age) and letting her be raised in a safe, loving envirnoment.