I'm so sorry Carol, words cannot express how horrible this must be for you. Please do not feel guilty, there is nothing you did to cause this. I hope you have some strong family support to lean on and take care of you. We will be here if you want to get your feelings out. Sending a prayer for you.
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Thread: I have lost my baby...
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July 2nd, 2012, 01:35 PM #11Mom to 3 wonderful boys
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July 2nd, 2012, 01:36 PM #12
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So sorry for your loss hun xxx
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July 2nd, 2012, 02:07 PM #13
So sorry for your loss. You did not cause this, so please don't feel guilty about that. You loved your baby even if you felt disappointed that you did not get the girl you swayed for. Most of us have been there. But you're right, a healthy baby is so much more important than gender. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this!
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July 2nd, 2012, 03:01 PM #14
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Thank you all, girls, for your messages. Please, if anyone is in my situation, rise above your gender disappointment and just celebrate the life you're carrying. Don't let something awful like a loss take place before you learn to appreciate a baby is more than a gender.
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July 2nd, 2012, 05:18 PM #15
So sorry for your loss hun thinking of you xx
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July 2nd, 2012, 06:11 PM #16
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July 2nd, 2012, 10:27 PM #19
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I can't even imagine what you are going through, but you have certainly put things into perspective, being in a similar situation to you with GD. Thank you for your openness. Thinking of you and your family xx
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July 3rd, 2012, 12:46 AM #20
oh I am so sorry

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