What should I do?

[atomic sagebrush]

Drop the frequency and just BD when the mood strikes if you feel good about your sway otherwise. It's very likely that frequency doesn't even sway by much.

[monkeymama]

I'm sorry, I didn't see your post asking how I feel about my sway, atomic. The answer is not too good! My "sway" consists of weight loss (not sure how much, since I can't find our bathroom scale--but my clothes are absolutely fitting much more loosely!), low blood glucose, RepHresh (which I stopped when I thought I had ov'd), and FR (which we also stopped when I thought I ov'd). I'm not following the LE (or any other pink) diet--I have glucose intolerance issues, so I'm just limiting carbs and eliminating red meat. I wanted to be on a low-carb diet when I got pregnant anyway (and I really should be for the rest of my life!), and I'm more concerned about having a healthy pregnancy than having a girl.

I'm so far into my cycle now (CD 28) that if I didn't ov, I think I'm just gonna write this month off. It was a bonus month anyway! If I start to notice fertile signs again, we might give it one more shot. But DH has not been abstaining, so do you think RepHresh + J&D could cover the potentially high sperm count problem?

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes, I do think RepHresh and J and D can undo a lot where sperm numbers are concerned!!!

Such a long cycle may sway pink anyway or at least indicate a pink-friendly month, so I would def. give it a shot this month if the occasion presents itself.