Newbie TTC pink next year!

[atomic sagebrush]

1)About doing the opposite - you don't HAVE to do the opposite of everything to get a baby girl.you only have to do the opposite of what got you a boy. The best evidence we have indicates that caffeine doesn't sway blue and may sway PINK when used in excess. No need to skip out on caff or alcohol, and sodium is open for debate.

2)I see you figured out the timing - my advice is just to BD at positive OPK because that yields best odds of conception with one attempt.

3)If your husband is under 35, do abstain, if he's over 35, do FR.

4)You can also do a modified jump and dump where you stay laying down for 5 min and then J and D at that point.

[atomic sagebrush]

The LE diet is the only one i have found i couldnt seem to find the Ig diet . Do you have to be a dream member to see everything? Im thinking thats what i need to do

Both the full LE Diet plus some recipes, meal plans, etc are in the Dream Members Section, along with the IG FAQ and French Gender Diet.

[atomic sagebrush]

I dont want to stress myself either! I think i may check ph once or twice prior to our attempt to make sure it is keeping ph level low. Diet will be hardest for me though! As i have never watched what i eat and im not of big fan of veggies and bland stuff! but i feel as if this os worth it! But i am deff not tryinh to get in over my head . i want to start my sway with a clear head knowing i will be able to accept having another boy if my sway fails without having gd! With my 2nd i had extreme gd but now that he is here i will be okay with another boy. im hoping god will give me the girl i yurn for or get rid of the desire to have one! I cannot wait to start! Hoping we both hear pink and your sway sounds great!

You don't have to eat tons of veggies or bland foods on LE Diet.

also regarding your pH question, here's the anti-pH essay! http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...ph-pickle.html

I got a boy with pH that never changed from 4.5 and then got a girl without ever checking my pH at all.

[atomic sagebrush]

Alright !! Ive been up here all day looking up stuff and i think the best for me and dh would abstain 7-10 days with a cutoff 2-3 days before O. but i read diet+abstain is a good sway on its on because of how much is lowers sperm count! Should i still supp and use represh 2-3 daus before attempt or would that be doing too much

If you're going for a cutoff then I would not use RepHresh or antihistamine. Makes it too hard to conceive.

[amanduhjade]

Thanks so much atomic!! Now that ive read that I will be excluding ph out of my sway and if not , I will not take it as serious as i would have before reading the article. So if i DONT use a cutoff and just bd at +opk should i use represh?

[Peanut41]

I am also a newbie that found gender dreaming after looking at IG for a few days. We are going to start trying in January. I fell vicitm to an impulse buy of the Hannah meter but I have decided not to check PH since it doesn't seem to matter as much as the diet. I am so glad to have found this site! No disrespect to IG, but everything over there seemed outdated and extreme with not much logic to me. Being a biologist myself, I have heard of the trivers willard hypothesis many times before and it makes a lot of sense to me. I am so excited to start TTC! Thanks for all your hard work Atomic!

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks so much atomic!! Now that ive read that I will be excluding ph out of my sway and if not , I will not take it as serious as i would have before reading the article. So if i DONT use a cutoff and just bd at +opk should i use represh?

That is up to you - it will lower your odds of conception, but a lot of people want to try it just to see if they can get pg while using it. I didn't use it when I got my girl.

[atomic sagebrush]

I am also a newbie that found gender dreaming after looking at IG for a few days. We are going to start trying in January. I fell vicitm to an impulse buy of the Hannah meter but I have decided not to check PH since it doesn't seem to matter as much as the diet. I am so glad to have found this site! No disrespect to IG, but everything over there seemed outdated and extreme with not much logic to me. Being a biologist myself, I have heard of the trivers willard hypothesis many times before and it makes a lot of sense to me. I am so excited to start TTC! Thanks for all your hard work Atomic!

Thanks! Hi and welcome, glad you found us!!!

[amanduhjade]

Words cant even describe how excited i am to start my sway! I will start LE diet jan 13 and try my attempt in april ! Do yu think 2 to 3 cycles is enough? Im soo impatient and i want to start now haha but were moving in feb and i know that will be stressfull

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes it's plenty!!