Goodness, as soon as my DH announced to people we were expecting another baby (which I didn't want him to do until we knew gender) I got lots of "oh maybe this one will be a girl" or "hopefully it's a girl so you two can be done having kids." There's a quote I really like that goes something like "People know exactly how other people should be living their lives, but have no idea how they should live their own." This is so true. No, I don't think people have a clue as to how stupid those comments make them sound, and honestly they probably really don't know how hurtful they are, especially for mom's who are dealing with GD. Hope you are feeling better.