I know what it's like to have everyone around get what you want. It twists your insides around. It hurts.
I hope you find happiness.
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Thread: I don't like this. :-(
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April 14th, 2011, 07:18 AM #11
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May 21st, 2011, 04:42 AM #12Dream Newbie
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I desperately WANT a girl and have two boys! Arghh it's so frustrating isn't it? I mean we all love our kids but it just seems so unfair sometimes. Hugs to you.
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June 29th, 2011, 01:57 PM #13
Nothing but time will lessen the hurt. Look at your babies and know how lucky you really are. My heart goes out to you even though I am in the same boat TTC a boy.
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June 29th, 2011, 02:14 PM #14Dream Vet
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it does hurt. i can understand and i may be in the same boat. a lot of us may be. the only thing that helps ME is counting all the things i DID get in life. a great husb, 2 beautiful healthy girls, a warm house, no major health worries. etc. it sounds bad, but it helps to look at ppl who are less fortunate than you. for ex ppl who have been trying for YEARS just to have ONE baby, or my SIL who decided she wanted a 2nd baby but her DH got snipped and wont go back, etc.
and i also think God gives you what you can handle for a purpose. even if you dont believe in God, you can think FATE gave you what you can handle. what if you got pg with a boy with a developmental delay/medical condition. to me id rather have 10 girls than 9 girls and a boy that would need medical help all his life and wouldnt be able to live a "typical" life.
its all in perspective, i guess.
i hear ya tho!
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