Guys who can I turn to ? Should I talk to my midwife ? Hubby doesnt understand

[Rainbow baby]

You have lost a baby honey there is a reason for your feelings and visions, they are normal. Everytime I see my family picture in the hall I think well they are not all there are they, it dosn't look right anymore! So I got a massive sunrise of the day he was born. It has helped so much. There are plenty of support groups around, there are some on facebook aswell. They are hidden groups and the ladys on them are all in the situation you are, they have lost a child. There are stages of greif and the support group I am on now there are two ladies in your situation, they lost one twin. Losing a baby is hard one of the hardest things I have been trough but being able to talk with women in the same situation is that support that knowbody else can give you, unless they have been there even if they try, it really isn't the same. I have been the support before the storm and seriously honestly I never thought it would feel like this not this hard not this bad even if the threads and convo's bring you to tears there is just so much more things and situations thoughts. It is a long road a road no body should have to walk down alone!

[Rainbow baby]

Your midwife will be able to tell you were the support groups are and will be able to organise for someone for you to speak with if you like. <hugs>

[Mum23boys]

Thanks ladies - I cried reading your posts. I know its going to take time and rainbow i like the ide of chatting to people on a group like on facebook so maybe ill lookinto that. Thank you again