ultrasound this afternoon.

[aimee83]

Thanks for checking, and yes that's what the pic is of. He wouldn't do a potty shot :-(

[afy]

Aimee 83.. Congrataz on your baby! I wanted to ask if you had swayed at all?
I'm one of 3girls and I Love it! A sister Bond is so special! Even when were oceans apart.

[aimee83]

I didn't sway at all, i had just taken my iud out to start tackling my cycles and ended up pregnant a week after it was removed. I do love that my older 2 are both same gender, they are only 18 months apart and extremely close play so well.together, I just wanted to experience the soon bond also, but that's not what god wanted for our family

[The Anchor]

Sorry you didn't hear boy...but sisters are WONDERFUL (I have 3!)

[ruby]

3 girls are really special. One of my closest friends has always dreamed of having 3 little girls and would look at your family with admiration and also a little envy.

Congratulations on hearing a healthy baby girl. People really need to filter stupid comments. That tampax one is way out of line and really offensive !

[Adia]

I get you completely. For some reason #3 is so hard when you want a boy so badly.

I can promise you that this baby girl will own your heart like no other. Hard to believe now, but trust me things will get better once she's born.

Once I found out I was indeed having my 3rd girl I went into a terrible slump. Things got much better when she was born and now I can't even fathom not having that little miracle in my life every day.

As I caution so many moms who are having their 3rd of the same kind, be very discerning who you tell you are having your 3rd girl. I got so many horrible comments that made things so much worse for me.
If I did it all again, I would tell NO ONE except my Gender Dreaming (IG) friends, my mom and my DH. It made the heartache so much worse.

Big hugs and congrats on another beautiful baby. Girls are so much fun to dress, aren't they??? I have a ball dressing my girls up!!!

[aroundtheworld]

I'm sorry that things didn't go the way you'd hoped. I had three boys in a row after having my daughter and all I wanted for her was a sister. But I am living proof that dreams do come true, so please don't give up hope.

[aimee83]

Thanks everyone for the wonderful comments, we did get a potty shot yesterday, and definitely a girl. Yes, I really wish I wouldn't have told people. But things are going a little better with comments because of the hyperemesis, my hubby has been very clear letting people know what a miracle and blessing she is, because with how sick i have been things could be super bad. I feel so much worse that I case so much about the gender and he doesn't considering he well never have the father son bond. Last night I said, I feel like such a failure not being able to give us a boy, and his response "why I Don't care, and the gender is up to me so its my fault. I don't care, why should you. She's a blessing" then i think I'm really horrible, because he doesn't care why do I

[Dana-Alicia]

Sorry you didn't hear boy, but congrats on a healthy girl! your husband sounds so kind and sweet, like mine. He also claims to have no gender desire. But i do and that doesn't make me a bad or horrible person. We all love our children regardless, it's just such a strong desire I can't shake. I hope you find peace with your family make up mama, hugs!