DH can't BD at +Tive OPK... So upset

[Emily]

We have done an accidental 3 days before O! Going to be a lo g week until testing!

???? We you not going to try this month or were you going for a crazily long cut off? 3 days is OK for girl isn't it? Not so many will have survived. I wanted to OPK+ one attempt but ended up with 3-4 cut off and loads of ladies here still think I have a chance

Looks like it is going to be a long wait for a few of us

[thehappypixi]

Wasn't supposed to be trying this month! Plan was diet and supps for three months, try in April, but I got drunk and miscalculated O so voila!

[thehappypixi]

I wanted to do so much more! Didn't do FR, didn't use all the lubes and fanny goo stuffs. Hopefully the timing plus diet and supps means we have reduced our fertility enough to sway pink, but, I generally think we are really fertile and need to do it all..... can but wait and see now. I'm sooooo impatient though lol!! I'm totally going to test from about 7dpo every morning!

[Emily]

Wasn't supposed to be trying this month! Plan was diet and supps for three months, try in April, but I got drunk and miscalculated O so voila!

That is exactly how my friend got her DD and she wasn't even swaying LOL. Alcohol sways pink if the man drinks it

[thehappypixi]

Thanks Everyone has been so lovely, I feel like I let myself down, but I think that's just my personality. I'm going to try and look at the positive sway factors, rather than the negative, as someone else told me I have as much chance as anyone so fingers crossed for a foofy!

[Emily]

Thanks Everyone has been so lovely, I feel like I let myself down, but I think that's just my personality. I'm going to try and look at the positive sway factors, rather than the negative, as someone else told me I have as much chance as anyone so fingers crossed for a foofy!

You are not alone - I jumped on DH too early and then went and made it worse by having a big O a few days later. I thought I was owed one after all the FR and general sexiness without one of course O actually happened a couple of days later.

Someone had this quote in their signature - life is what happens when you are busy making plans - lets just hope for pink!

[Wishonastar]

Fanny goo!! Haha love it lol!!

I agree, going to be a very long wait I'm still waiting for my temps to rise too, so I'm still in lala land and not knowing...

DH always makes up somehow for his forgetfulness or mistakes and his pretty good at it lol, lets hope this mistake gets made up for with a dd

[thehappypixi]

I hope so for you! Time will tell

[Niva]

I think I already answered this somewhere along the way, but that's fine to have one attempt 2 days before O, that's still a good chance of pg unlike 3 day cutoff. Plus, you count from your FIRST positive OPK even if you get more/darker ones later on. So your attempt was prob. perfect timing and even if it wasn't you're still in with a good chance.

Thanks Ladies! Maybe his inability to perform will end up being a blessing in disguise

Still waiting for my temp rise tho? My temps are still level with Pre O? Does this mean I haven't ovulated? All my cramps and signs said I DEFINATELY did but temps aren't giving no indication...

I have been curious about this. I always believed temps rose the day after O, and that O would happen within 12-36hrs of the first +OPK. But when the two don't coincide, which gives? I usually get 48 hrs of true positive opks, so I see a positive result on up to 3 separate days. My temp doesn't rise until the morning after the LAST positive OPK.

Could this be explained by ovulation happening within 36 hrs of the start of the LH surge, but the LH levels stay up anyway? And until the LH goes down, the progesterone doesn't rise to make the bbt rise? So the bbt jump might NOT always follow the day after O, but take a day or two longer to appear?

Alternately, and this makes equal sense to me, do the LH levels stay up because O hasn't happened yet and your body senses that it needs to pump in more LH to get the egg to leave the gate? If this is the case, the temp rise would be accurate, not the first positive OPK.

[Little Lunasa]

Any update on bfp??


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