Anyone went for a gender scan and DIDNT tell their partner???

[Yrose20118]

ha ha... I think I need to go as im my heart im defiantly having a girl... and I keep looking at baby girl clothes etc and I almost buy them as im that convinced. My head however tells me boy and that is why im so obsessed with this. I just need to know so I don't have another 5 1/2 months of convincing myself its a girl and its a boy. I wont be sad if it is a boy but I think i'll be worse if I tell myself for so long its a girl and it isn't. I even almost find myself saying to people I think this is a girl this time and if again it isn't I don't want to look like I didn't want my boy either... if that makes sense...

Don't think i'll ever tell my husband about the scan...

xxx

[Smiley13]

I totally agree with going alone! I wish I was an ultrasound tech and could just give myself a scan so no one would know lol

[Coyleof7]

I didn't not want dh there, but it was first thing in the morning and he had to take the other kids to school...we'd swayed girl and he did want to be there!! Same thing will probably happen this time too...but it was nice for me to be able to tell him myself (but did not really enjoy giving birth alone...another story lol) xxx oh - he can't keep secrets either - I wanted to wait til I was visibly preggo before telling - but he was straight on phone to everyone...lol

[vickyaust]

I would tell him & accept that it's going public. Or neither of you find out. It's too big a secret to keep to yourself.