Getting nervous about being able to conceive.

[Cauliflower]

I hate bcp so we've always used the pull out method, over 7 years and I've never got accidentally pregnant. So long as he actually pulls out before anything erm, happens, I think it's actually a solid method.

We have been doing exactly that to prevnt pregancies!
I used BCP for only swaying purposes. Hope I wont regret....

[Becca.lms]

I got pregnant both times the first time with my boys.
We attempted last month but I think I actually mussed ovulation by a week. So we will see about now. But with the boys I wasn't using and doing stuff to make me less fertile, so who knows.
We have never used birth control though. I don't like the idea that with most an egg can still be fertilized. I also don't want any pill taking control of my lady bits for me, heard too many issues of ttc after being on birth control.

[Becca.lms]

We used the pull out method for years and never got pg except when we wanted to. Pull out is pretty darn effective (somewhere there is a study that shows this.) I had my first two boys when I was 21 and 25 and then waited 13 years before having 3 more and didn't really have trouble getting pg with any of them, even my last one at 41 only took 6 months. At 24 years old, you are in the peak of your fertility, actually better than when you were 17.

Yay, I'm 24! Ha ha.

[Cauliflower]

I got pregnant both times the first time with my boys.
We attempted last month but I think I actually mussed ovulation by a week. So we will see about now. But with the boys I wasn't using and doing stuff to make me less fertile, so who knows.
We have never used birth control though. I don't like the idea that with most an egg can still be fertilized. I also don't want any pill taking control of my lady bits for me, heard too many issues of ttc after being on birth control.

Doesnt make me feel any better my sister used BCP and got PG after quitting so I can hope. I used it barely for 3 months, hope it has not made a lot of damage, just enough to give a DD!

[Becca.lms]

Me neither. That's not very long.
And some people get pregnant while using bcp. Though Though I think thats mire human error than anything else.
But everyone is different so you really have no idea how you'll react until you use it.
But I know that stress 100% won't help you conceive so try and relax.

If you still had a period on bcp that's better because your body would still be going through Its regular motions.

[Becca.lms]

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[rainbowflower]

no way are you 41 Atomic!! you do NOT look it!

[atomic sagebrush]

I'm 43. Thank you!

[atomic sagebrush]

Doesnt make me feel any better my sister used BCP and got PG after quitting so I can hope. I used it barely for 3 months, hope it has not made a lot of damage, just enough to give a DD!

most people get pg just fine after bcp, rven those on them many years!

[rainbowflower]

I'm 43. Thank you!

wow! I'd have put you at early 30s!