I could scream

[Adia]

Men are IDIOTS! There is really nothing else to say!

If it makes you feel any better me and DH spent a lot of time in the hot tub when I was conceiving ds2 he was actually conceived in the hot tub I think

Its a good thing they are cute because yes, they are definitely idiots and will make you crazier than crazy in no time flat!!

Hang in there TTCaprince....it will be ok.

[dloui128]

this post literally made me laugh out loud and that is pretty hard to do!! Men are idiots is right, but in all honesty I think the HE diet and everything is mainly about the women, changing the environment of her body. You are doing everything you are supposed to be doing and yes I believe your T levels are probably up
I think the bath he took 2 weeks before your attempt is fine, just make sure he is not doing it right before your attempt like Cinss said

[atomic sagebrush]

Just because heat is bad, does not mean icing is good. There is no benefit to it and it will prob. just be another thing for you to stress and argue about.

There are ladies on this site whose husbands won't sway at all and do all kinds of bad stuff and yet their sways work out anyway. (please check out Hobbermittens' sway) It's not ideal of course, but no one's sway is ever ideal. There are TONS of girls who are swaying pink and have their husbands sit in hot baths and still get opposites.

My husband would do nothing to sway at all ever either, and it's just how it was for me. I do not think that after one daughter you should even be concerned about it. If you had 5,6,7 daughters then maybe, but at this point you don't even know that you're "set" for pink. maybe, but more likely maybe not.

[coocoobananas]

If it makes you feel any better, I'm on boy #3 and my husband has scorching hot baths every.single.day!