Baby boy number 3?

[pinkdreamer]

Meant to add in the last message, congratulations! I'm sure he'll be completely amazing x

[Mummy-P]

Congratulations, it wasn't the girl you were hoping for but there's a reason for your son coming into this world and maybe it's to be there for the sister that may come next. I hope you still get your baby girl one day but for now I hope you hv a great pregnancy with your boy and enjoy planning for his arrival x

[two1984]

Congratulations again on your little boy. x

[lemonmeringue]

Yes definitely a boy. Sorry you didn't get your girl this time.. xx

[Wanting-a-girl]

My third boy is the love of my life... The strongest bond ever with that boy! He's literally my best friend as weird as that sounds lol... Now that I have had my fourth and gave it my all for the girl... I don't even yearn for the girl I won't have... I feel complete.... But I didn't after my third I knew I wanted another "baby"... My DH is getting fixed next month so this is it for me !

[retrolove1]

I wanted my DS2 to be a girl and obviusly he's not and he is such a cheeky chappy that I would not change but I still desired a daughter and got jealous if I saw people with girls. I want that feeling to go away of longing and being jealous of others. I'm so lucky to even be able to have children, I don't know why I'm feeling like this. X

[Wanting-a-girl]

It's okay to be sad... Just don't resent your baby for his gender that's all... Is there anyway you could try for a fouth time? Don't do it if the only thing you want out of it is a girl..l when I was trying for number four I thought about it for a few months what I really wanted... I asked myself over and over again if I wanted a girl or did I want a baby... In the end my answer was a baby and if the answer was a girl I wouldn't have done it


I really wanted the experience of a female relationship in general... I have a shitty relationship with my momand all my siblings are brothers... So my life is surrounded be all make lol... And people will tell me that we'll I'm sure to have a granddaughter... What those people don't know is that two of my boys are disabled and will not be reproducing and my oldest if he does I'm sure he will have boys lmao... Hopfully my youngest is healthy and normal to give me some grand kids....

Sorry I'm so bad for rambling.... Lol

Hope you are doing well tho

[Wanting-a-girl]

O you have an autism guy... Two of mine have it... My ds2 is severe... And ds3 appears to be quite mild he is still not diagnosed

[Adia]

Congratulations on a little boy! Believe me, your GD baby will have you wrapped around his finger in no time. I promise.

I had horrid GD with DD3 and now I can't get enough of her. She has cured my GD to the point that if I can ever get pregnant and it is another girl and she's anywhere as cute as DD3, it won't bother me a bit.

The sadness will separate itself from your little bub when you hold him, I promise!

[retrolove1]

I definitely won't resent the baby, I do love him already. Yes my eldest is Autistic but not severely. He is in main ****** school but struggles, he's just moved schools and so far he is doing well and the school is great especially compared to his last school. I also don't think there will be any granddaughters, so far both sides of our family only have grandsons.
I really just want to buy cute girly stuff and not get stupid comments from people and I worry the boys won't bother when they are older but I guess you get out what you put in.

Adia that is great to know. I don't think my longing for a daughter will ever go but I would just be happy to not be jealous of others.

OH told his family and they came over with some lovely boy baby bits and looked so proud when looking at his scan photos, they made me feel so much more better. I decided I best tell my family, my mums initial reaction was Oh never mind but they also seemed OK. I think half my upset was others reactions and disappointment. I'm already in the last couple of hours feeling loads better. xxx