To have or not to have three

[willtherebe4]

My friend is married to a man that has just one brother. She told me years ago that when they go to her in laws, if his brother cannot make it and it's just them and his parents. She said it is just very boring. Her kids are bored going there when his brother's family cannot come. I'm sure 2 kids are lovely but there's something to be said for having more than two kids when you fast forward from the little kids years. I say go for it!

You are right NBP, we often think about now, but I mostly think of down the track... Its a busy time when you have little ones in the house whether you have 1,2 or 5 but it soon settles down and manageable. I started out thinking I would have 2, now i'd be open to 5 max lol

[dreaminginblue]

I know it's been a while so anyone posted but I thought I'd throw in my two penneth. I come from a family of 9, and DH 4 so I think if we only have 2 it would be alien to us both. That said I am weary of the implications 3 present, not enough hands or arms to hold hands or give cuddles at the same time but I do not feel ready to hang up my maternity bra just yet.
That all being well and good, my next concern is having a boy through a successful sway and wanting to do it again so he would possibly have a brother to help with his sisters affections. DD1 has her heart set on a brother, DD2 wants a sister!