Is anyone using The Secret?

[myGirl]

Me! I'm using it. And it has already worked for me in so many other ways - got me my dream job, got us out of debt, got us childcare from nowhere and a million other little things. I'm a big believer. Go for it...

Woot! I used it once when I wanted to lose weight and it DID work!! I am starting to buy some baby things for my DD-to-be, and I'm making a scrapbook for her. I am doing my best to act as if she's on her way

[Cinss]

I watched the Secret movie years ago when it first came out. Basically what i got from it was that your thoughts get sent out into the universe and the equal opposite reaction was these thoughts manifesting in your life. Good or bad, you get what you wish for.

I definatly believe in the power of positive thinking. When DP and i started talking about having a child together, i desperatly wanted a DD, and seeing as he had 2 DDs from a previous relationship i really did believe i would get one, and my thoughts were consumed with "my daughter, my girl, has to be" turned out that i got what i believed i would.

Now that we both really want our next child to be a boy i am really trying very hard to believe it will be so, it is a little harder this time and i constantly have to shut off my mind when it starts doubting. I believe you do attract your fears because you are constantly sending out the negative thoughts, only to have them manifest in your life.