Just a little rant needed

[Boysway]

Mrs_Incredible, you give me hope, thank you. I definitely won't be telling hubby when O is coming up, no point.

Adia, feel free to join my pity party lovely. Though, not good for you I am happy to have company. I hope your cycles get back to normal soon. How are they out of whack?

Steph, Yes, the psychology makes perfect sense. No luck with anything. Me doing so many night shifts probably doesn't help. Just waiting on AF to arrive so I can begin the next cycle. I hope to goodness these supps I have for dh work. Because, right now there is absolutely no sign of them working

[stephk]

thats a shame - and he has been taking them for a while now. Did he go to the doctor in the end? Does the doctor have any suggestion for him?

[Mrs_Incredible]

We agreed to ttc nov 12. Kept putting it off for one reason or another. Roll on nov 13, sitting sorting out clothes for my pg sister. Dh see's the tiny vests and freaks, decides our family should stay as it is!! Tiny newborn clothes frighten the poor man. 24 hours later he admits he was freaked out. He was back on board but mainly for me. He never imagined in his wildest dreams we would be having a girl. Me either and i was having a lot of worry of should i have stuck at 3? It all worked out in the end for us both which is a huge relief,but men need to think they're making the decisions and are complex at the most frustrating of times!! Fx you get there. Is it worth a trip to the docs for him? Can he complete the transaction at other non ttc times? I really feel for you. Swaying is hard enough xx
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[Boysway]

Steph, no he still hasn't been to the Dr. I'm going to see if my Dr is working this weekend as he was off last weekend. Dh works for himself so it's difficult for him to make time to see the Dr. He had about 3 weeks off the tablets because the replacement supps took almost a month to turn up. So, he is pretty much starting them all over again.

Mrs_Incredible, dh was keen for another baby before I was. Our youngest is 4 and it took me till about October last year to decide I wanted one more baby. Dh has little to no libido Stress is a major contributor. I'm just worried it's a potential cardio issue. No, dh can't always perform other times either Hopefully we can get to the Dr asap.

[stephk]

Yes definitely see the doctor. It might not necessarily be a cardio issue but maybe take the supps with you to the doctor so they can rule out any potential issues.

Some form of cognitive behavioural therapy might be beneficial - but obviously I don't know your DH so it would be down to a doctor to make that assessment.

[Mrs_Incredible]

Hugs xx


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[atomic sagebrush]

Huge (((hugs))), I hope this works itself out soon!

[Boysway]

Thanks for the hugs and support ladies. It's very much appreciated

I am on CD 1 as of today (early hours of the morning in Australia). I'm hoping my cycle might settle. Two cycles in a row of 33 days. LP of 14 days with ovulation being CD 19. I hope if I remember to take my vitamins all the time, especially the brewers yeast my cycle will remain the same. AF seems to come with little warning besides really sores bb's. *TMI* but thankful I was already wearing a pad as AF has gone straight into medium to possibly heavy first day and I'm in the last 30 mins of nightshift.

I'm hoping this is the cycle for us. If not, there is always next month In saying that, I may not be in this mindset if we don't get an attempt this cycle but trying to remain positive for now.

[stephk]

Good luck Boysway I am praying for you and your DH x

[Boysway]

Thank you Steph xx