Is anyone else scared?

[Ugee]

True blue- I don't think anyone can be a fraud about GD. It's a deep personal desire.

Boom- I'm also glad I found out at my 20 week scan that I was having my DS2 as it gave me time to be happy for his arrival. I cried for 2 weeks straight but then adjusted. When he arrived I was in love with him. I won't lie tho that a lady in the next bed had a little girl and hearing her talking and calling her my baby girl really stung.

1+2+3- I'm the same as you...some days I just think I shouldn't TTC at all as I just don't want to hear them say "boy"! But the feeling of wanting a girl is getting stronger. It haunts me wherever I go and do with reminders that it's what I want. The thought of never getting her and living like this forever is my biggest fear of all.

I really do hope you all get your DG babies!

[mummaof4]

That is me right now. I'm 34 weeks with #4. I already have 3 boys, this baby was unplanned (we were planning on IVF/PGD in a year or two) and we didn't find out the sex. I'm convinced it is another boy and I am terrified and I think that is a big part of the reason I haven't found out, I'm just not ready to hear it.

I'm terrified that because this will be my 4th c-section, my OB will tell me no more after this baby and then my hopes for IVF/PGD to try for a girl will be lost. It is that hope for IVF/PGD that keeps me from completely falling apart.

You are certainly not alone Ugee, I hope you get your DG baby xx

[Ugee]

Mummaof4- I hope you get you get a fantastic surprise and that this baby is your girl!

[The Anchor]

I feel like a fraud in the world of GD if I'm super honest. We have 2 DS's they were our first we then went on over 12 years to have 6 DD's the deep longing and desire for a DS has been getting worse since DD3. I don't even understand it, why it's so strong but it's there and this is our very final shot at it. I have a great relationship with my bigger boys and feel very greedy to so strongly desire another.

2 boys and 6 girls?!? INCREDIBLE what a wonderful family trueblue!

[True Blue]

Thank you Anchor