Disappointed, guilty, depressed and angry... Help :(

[Sarah4girl]

The love you feel for number one is something special. Another baby won't take that away. When you are holding your little girl and looking into her eyes you will fall in love again. Each child is so different and your little girl will offer different and special things, just like your son. Give it some time to sink in and be kind to yourself.


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[nickie]

I also need help... i m in very bad psychological status ever since we found out we r having another boy... i m heartbroken...
I know all the things i should be thinking but i cant think them. I m drowning in my own disappointment. Pls help me. My heart was aching for that little girl which will never come... so unfair fir this boy. Terrible mother. I have issues i should have settled them before ttc.
I keep relating this feeling to all my previous disappointments in life.

[Mama2013]

Well know you aren't alone. It's too bad we couldn't trade isn't it ? I've known I'm having a girl now for a few weeks and I'm starting to feel more accepting... But every time I try to go out and shop for her I get depressed and leave with nothing. The face everyone seems to want a girl after having a boy makes me feel even worst about my situation! But Nickie just know you are not alone because I know exactly what your feeling and I hope that it passes for both of us


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